There is alot of Mis-information or partial information in this thread. First of all, you don't get to pick and choose which debts are included in Chap 7. If you have a note on your house it was "included" in Chap 7. all of your debts must be inculed by law. Then you can re-affirm some of them if you choose. When you file you have to select the option you "intend" to do a) re-affirm, b) redeem, c) surrender. After your 341 hearing you can get with your lender and complete a re-affirmation agreement and file it with the court. It has to be filed before the case is discharged.
Re-affirmation is not automatic.
First the bank must also agree to the re-affirmation. (currently BOA and Wells Fargo no longer do re-affirmations). It is a new agreement and the court cannot require the bank to sign it.
Second, it has to be approved by the judge. If he/she doesn't think you are financially stable enough to handle the debt, the judge can refuse to accept it. In some districts the judges do not accept re-affirmations at all. Some districts don't require it to go before the judge if your attorney files an affidavit that you are finacially sound enough to handle the debt. Some attorneys will refuse to sign them all together because they don't want any potential liability regarding the re-affirmation.
The 2005 Bankruptcy law did only allow for the three options but they did not consider/ignored the fact, that the bank (or other party) must also agree to the re-aff.
The middle district of Florida is the only one that I know of that strictly interpits the law to say you have to re-affirm if you want to keep the property. This is based on a ruling in October 2009. This was before BOA and WF decided to no longer do re-aff's. It was a decision based on very specific circumstances, that the judge then turned around and said applied to all potential re-aff's. I think it will be overturned. Even if yo don't sign one in this district and you "Surrender" by default of not signing. You can still continue to make payments and stay in the house.
Now that we have laid out the various rules. You then have to decide to re-affirm or not re-affirm. Even though you chose the selection "Intent to re-affirm" when you filed your chap 7. The law does allows you to change your mind. It even specifically allows you to recind the re-aff up until discharge or 60 days after you filed the re-aff. so you can legally recind it after discharge (as long as the 60 days haven't expired).
If you are upside down on the house I can think of no good reason to sign one. The bank has to follow the same state foreclosure laws to foreclose as they would if you had not filed BK. They are the same after BK whether or not you affirmed or did not affirm.
So if you get behind on your payments (even if you don't re-affirm) all of the notices and court filings and court sales have to be made just as if you re-affirmed. Most of those state laws allow you to bring the note current up until the foreclosure sale.
So I can't follow the logic stated earlier in this post that you are better of having signed a re-aff if you were to get in financial trouble later. It doesn't make sense! If you signed the re-aff and a year later lose your job and quit making payments. Then the bank is going to foreclose regardless of whether or not you signed the re-aff. The difference is if you did sign the re-aff they will sue you for the deficiency and get a judgement against you. this judgement can't be discharged, because you can't file Bankruptcy again for 7 years (after your previous filing).
But in that same situation, if you had not re-affirmed, you just walk away and the bank will foreclose but you have no liability for the debt.
The reason banks won't foreclose if you stay current is becasue they have no incentive. They continue to make money off of the interest that you pay every month. If they foreclosed they would have to pay attorney fees and then hope to sell the house for enough to re-coup their loan plus cover the attorney and court fees. Then loan the money out again to get the same interest (give or take) that they were receiving from you already.
To the poster who referred to the contract language in the promissary notes regarding bankruptcy and demand of payment. That line is always followed by "In accordance with applicable state laws". Alot of states will not allow foreclosure or demand of payment if you are current on your payments.
Now suppose it is five years later and you have built up equity in the property. You can sell the house just as if you had re-affirmed it. You have to pay off the loan and you get to keep the rest. and then get a clear title.
If you had built up equity and then were unable to make the payment the bank would foreclose, but they would have to give you the proceeds in excess of what the outstanding balance was on the note.