The guest post above me certainly sounds easy but it is not. Yes, eventually your CC's will be charged off and everything will seem quiet. Doing nothing about the situation will just prolong the inevitable.
You will continue to get calls and letters. They will stop and months later when your account is sold to another debt buyer-you will go through it all over again. This process will continue for years. That is just creditors. The car loans will be the same thing.
Now the student loans are in deferment-that is a good thing. Those from what I know can not be included in BK.
I do not know your financial situation but 10k in credit card debt can be tackled. Part-time jobs, selling stuff ANYTHING. At this point if you are not paying credit cards, you can try working out a settlement plan for less than what you owe. Creditors will most likely accept. So if you can settle 10k for let's say 4 or 5k (maybe less) and get them to spread it out in payments-that would be great. Then again, you must be able to come up with the funds to settle.
If you are under financial stress and need any money just to make ends meet-well then the above is not an option. I am in a similar position but I owe a lot more. I am in the process of filing Chapter 7. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. The best option is to not file but if you have exhausted your options, filing is definitely the way to go. It is not the end of the world.
As far as exemptions, it sounds like you own nothing right now so you should be OK. The above post was right on that-if you have nothing they can't take nothing BUT later on when you do decide to buy a home or somehow come into some type of money-there can be judgements and such and everyone will be after it. It will be an ongoing cycle.
Talk it over with hubby and go over your options-we have had many and came to the BK conclusion. Talk to an attorney and see what your options are. Most consultations are free.
Best of luck with your journey![/code]