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 Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:15 pm Subject: Makes me mad! |
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Okay, not being mean. But why do you go out of your way to help some people and then you never hear from them again? I've been busting my butt for a couple of "guests" or "new members" and never hear back again. What's up with that? Had to vent..... Getting miffed over it now.
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cannr
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:15 pm Subject: |
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who are they, let me at em!!
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Lukeskywalker
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I hear you there, cannr. I've had to resign myself to understanding that it will happen...a lot.
One that I helped A LOT when they first came recently came back and asked for MORE help with PDL's, because they had gone out and gotten more, when I helped them get out of the mess they were in. I just didn't respond when they posted again...I was irritated, but I didn't say anything. 
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:30 pm Subject: thank you |
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Thank you! I swear, I'm not trying to be mean. But, my God, you know how much time and effort we put into helping, researching, figuring, etc. They pm the heck out of you. You respond with all the info. and you never hear another word. Or how about the ones that you're in the middle of helping and then go through posts and they've posted 4 more times on the other forums? What the? Okay. It makes you want to say "never mind". But I guess you can't do that! But I'm on the look-out now for posts for the ones I've been sitting here figuring out their law, how much they owe, sending example letters, etc. And "poof" they're gone. Disappeared. And, suebee, I don't blame you for not responding to "new" posts when you've already gotten them out of one mess. I swear, I'm not a mean person. I'm here to help people. But when some do this, I want to kick the computer! I just now put away my pencil, paper, and calculator after figuring out a bunch of stuff for a couple of people and said "forget it". Am I evil? I hope not.
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I appreciate both of you.
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Lukeskywalker
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It's ok, cannr....come over and we'll have a b-tch fest together....you bring the alcohol and I'll provide the snacks! LOL 
Seriously, though...I'm glad we can help people. It's frustrating when you don't hear back from them, but I guess it's human nature. I'm just glad they got help and hope they use it wisely.
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now THERE'S a smart man. LOL
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Silver lining...you get points/money for responding 
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:34 pm Subject: |
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lol, not smart enough
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:35 pm Subject: luke |
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Thank you, luke! We know you won't abandon us! And, sue, I wish you were right next door! I'd be there now!
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Well, since it looks like the picnics won't happen, I might as well throw SOME kind of shindig! 
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:39 pm Subject: thatkind |
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I hear you, thatkind! But, oohhhh, it just ticks me off! I really think that some of these people (and that's okay) just want to get "enough" information to see if they can "get out of it" and then they leave. Well, you really can't get just 1/2 the information and then disappear! You're going to be in trouble down the road sometime! I just hate feeling like I wasted my time figuring all this stuff out and then they're gone. I'm like.... "Hello? Hello?"
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Lol. I came here just looking for info, found everyone else was going through the same thing and got addicted to this webiste and am here EVERY day!
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and we're glad you are, thatkind! 
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thats good and I hope you stay with us.
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| Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:43 pm Subject: omg |
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OMG! I thought I was the only one totally addicted! I swear, I have to get my "fix" every single day! When the site was acting up about a week ago, I was tripping out! I'm like wandering around the house wondering "What do I do now?" How sad is that? LOL!
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