stop blaming the company for your bad credit

it is rather funny

Well i did get my High School diploma and I do know proper English.And I am so sorry I offended anyone in here with it.Atleast I did not use foul language.And as far as scaring me away you did not .I dont scare that easily.I just figured instead of making a 6 paragraph post i would shorten it.But i guess from now on I will just be a ghost in here and just read what everyone else writes and keep my posts to myself since my English is so bad. I thought this was a site for debt problems not for English lessons.

Was my previous post better? Seriously I do learn alot from this site and have found alot of things out that I did not know before.And i do have some useful information that i can also give out myself at times.I was just a little offended by that comment when all i was doing was trying to tell Missara to try to get some of the facts straight.I am not a professional in anyway ,just a stay at home mom and already feel bad about my own debt problems and such and that comment just made feel lower and more stupid then i already do.No hard feelings though.

I did not mean to criticize anyone's spelling. I am not upset when anyone makes an honest attempt to spell correctly. However, my main gripe is with using foul language. There is really no need to use it, especially if you are trying to make a point.

Beauty---I am old (51) compared to you! When I was your age, I thought people that were over 50 were ready for retirement homes!!

And guest - I didn't intend to jump down your throat. My only hope is that when you want to be taken seriously, please type it seriously. As I said, the moment I start reading something and the use of the English language is poor, I have a really difficult time trying to believe and respect that person. I can handle a single misspelled word here and there - that happens. Hell, even I do it. (Yeah - I do once in a while - seriously ). My only ask is that if you want to be part of a serious discussion, you can better present your opinion when it's presented in a manner easy to read.

Please - if you have information, give it. I love info. We all do. So I apologize if I upset you. If you are being screwy, l33t 5Pe4K 4w4Y. I'm cool with that. But when you want to be taken seriously, it helps when you talk better.

I just want to help. Again - if I upset you, I truly apologize.

Define please "l33t 5Pe4K 4w4Y". Is the second work "speak"?

Again, the people like this are the ones who make mistakes in spelling and ability to record information properly.

Sometimes the accounts dont exist and its the collectors, like the one who started this thread are the ones whove Effed up.

This is how innocent people have their credits destroyed.

Its sad really. One would think baisic intellegence would be required to do a collectors job.

Its all cool Jeff. I understand what you're saying.Believe me i can throw out a few foul words myself at time just not in here or any other forum..I keep those for when my hubby gets me angry.And just so you know if you read a post from a guest and "the" is spelled like this "teh", it"s me. I can spell just cant type.I"m thinking of signing up to be a member soon anyway so then ill actually have a name instead of guest.Like i said before i have learned alot from this site and can always afford to learn more information whether it pertains to me or not,never know when someone I know might need it.

"it is very important whta you guys say that can ruin it or companies like the one i work for"

I think youre doing a fine job yourself making your company look bad.

If collectors were honest, only tried to collect money from real debts and from the people who accually owe it, and didnt lie to the credit bureaus you wouldnt have as much of a problem.

Ive yet to see any comments posted on this forum regarding collectors helping to fix the credit reports or lives THEYVE "effed" up!
Ill challenge anyone to find such a post where someone reports that a collector helped them fix a mistake theyve made...

I am with you totally Lorri. I don't care if you spell something wrong, it is the foul language that bothers me also. I am 50 years of age. Maybe it is our age! There is nothing to be gained(except I guess for making ones self feel better) by pointing out peoples mistakes and then harping on them. There are a couple of members that do that regualarly. For what? Lets stick to the business at hand and get out of debt.

I totally support Lori also I hate the foul language. KYSIDE38

I am also a vote for clean language. And proper usage is definately a bonus! I am also an "older" person here (47), whose oldest daughter is only two years younger than Beauty, so maybe that's my problem, lol.
Nobody deserves to be abused on the forums, because if you want to hand that out for being in debt, then everyone, including myself, needs to stand in line.
My problem is that although I made straight A's in English in school, it was straight D's in Math! Maybe that's why I wound up on the forumns.....

LOL KS. I made the bad grades in Math to. KYSIDE38

Well, I'm in the "older club," too (49). I also hate foul language. And talking about when we were younger and thought 50 was old, here's one for you. Once I was taking my kids to school (I was about 25 at the time, and my kids were 9 and 10). There was a guy jay walking, and very slowly, too. I said, "Oh, come on, get moving already." My daughter said, "Mom, don't be mad at him. He's old." (He looked younger than me!).

KS, I also got A's in English, loved spelling, but skimmed by with math. My brother-in-law once said women are usually good at English, and men are usually good at math. What do you think?

This is too, TOO funny. I am also a member in the "great in English, poor in math club"!!! Geez, what DID they teach us in the 60's and 70's? Oh yes----to be free spirits, blah, blah, blah. And express how you feel in the written word---it wasn't important to be good in math, but to feel good about your mistakes!!! Mind you I am saying this all with a great deal of sarcasm (and smirking!!)