hey Miss Sue -
one thing, according to the FFDCPA - talking to them does NOT stop the SOL - and saying you will make a payment does NOT allow them to change anything NOR does it stop the clock from running from the original deliquency time.
For instance, you first went deliquent in January 1, 2000, the time clock starts ticking on July 1, 2000. Even if you make ONE payment now, Aug 13, 2006, you are STILL deliquent, and they cannot start you all over again, and in fact, if they change your credit report so they CAN start the clock ticking, they are doing so illegally.
There is more to this, but in effect, by July 2, 2007, your debt to them is no longer collectible. IF they file suit on you before that date, then thats another story. And depending on your states particulars, you can seek damages, and more than likely win, if they do any of the above.
Been there and done it. Most will then try to sell off to another CA to recoup their losses, but the original SOL begins the first time you become delinquent on a debt, and never catch up on it (meaning for those that might not understand, you may always be in default by months, your better off letting the statutes run out - sad, but true)
My ex left me with quite a mess, and I'm still not there in clearing up my name, but everyday I get closer. And thats how I look at it, unless they start litagation (whereby I can defend myself in a court of law to a judge showing how I got into my mess), I'm letting time run out, then wipe it from my CB record. It's been very tough raising 3 boys and crappy credit, lemme tell ya. I'm forever borrowing $$ from family to fix this and that on my car, but soon my nightmare will be over.