Linda,
We all are connected in this community and we jump on to the new visitors who come here with some of their problems. As new people are not familiar with this website, we all show them directions and help in their decision making.
You might be at the learning stage now but after some spending some time here, you will arm yourself with good and useful information. Then you will feel like helping others going through similar problems.
Vikas, the admin of this site, appreciates us for doing this community welfare. It is like a reward he wants to offer us with pleasure. You can share your experiences here and help others going through hard times. You will be rewarded whole heartedly for this good work.