kbraveboy,
bankersonline.com/regs/205/205-11.html
Ok, your bank had 10 days to investigate, and that could be extended out to 45 days max. Have they sent you notice of their investigation findings? And did they give a provisional credit for the unauthorized withdrawals?
More on the therapy- as far as I know, according to what level of therapy your son needs (speech, occupational), at age 5 your local school district provides therapy. And your son may also be eligible for Medicaid through your state; in many places Medicaid is offered to children with disabilities, when financially the family wouldn't otherwise be eligible.