omg im so glad i found this! hope you can offer some advice.
for whatever reason, like the others seeking advice, i fell behind and had all together stopped paying one of my credit cards. i was young, and so on...anywho, my husband and i are trying to settle up all our accounts and rebuild our credit. so when we were contacted by a debt collector on this account i mentioned, we thought, "ok great, another to work with, hope we can work it out so we can afford to start paying it off." in all honesty, i was glad and rdy to settle it. they said they'd settle for X amount, they wanted a big hunk up front,. i told them i coulndt afford to. they basicly bullied me down to agreeing to pay 300 up front, even tho in my head i knew i couldnt afford to. so gave her my bank acct number and what not to have it taken out. fine, done, rdy to start dealing with that one now. a few days maybe a week goes by, we get the letter saying (this will be direct from the letter)
"this letter is to remind you of payment or draft to be posted to your above mentioned account. your payment will be posted on the regularly scheduled date. please call withing 48hours if there are any changes or problems."
well 2 weeks go by, and still the money is in the bank acct. and we are kinda nervous about it. so monday morning we call and the lady we were dealing with says, "ya i tried to contact u that it didnt go through, you gave us the wrong acct number." ok so in trynig to deal with them we decided to just see if we could settle it with the original credit card company ourselves. the collectors, as you know, were aggressive, rude, and i couldnt get a word in edgwise once i told them i didnt want to deal with them or do it anymore. in my head i planned to call the original company. so i called the original company, gave em my info, they looked up and they said they didnt see any kind of note on the account. we were indeed able to set up repayments with them. which we did. well dumb me, i though i'd be nice and tell the collectors that i was jsut going to settle with the company. so here we are now, paying the company, made our first payment to them and everything, BUT the collectors still say they will call until we settle with them. now i dont know if they dont believe me settling with the credit card so they think they have a right to try to collect from me, or they do still have a right? r there some crossed wires? would talking to the credit card company to deal with them help? or are the collectors trying to bully me into paying them even though i don't have to?