Ohh...that totally sucks. I did the whole commuting thing for awhile and it sucked. The job was awesome. I actually wish I had it, but it was contract, and if I would have kept it...I would have had to move. Traffic was horrible.
As far as the judgement, you don't really know anything unless you talk to the judge. I get these things in the mail saying I won a trip. Gaurenteed from places in Flordia. I never got the trip. But the papers say I did. Just because you got papers in the mail doesn't mean it came from a court. Maybe talking to the judge or his assistant would help. Explaining to them that you don't make that much.
Anyway, and as far as CapitalOne...I fell behind a few months and it's in their inside collections. I'm suprised they're working with me, but not willing to work with you. However I am paying $80/week for the next 3 weeks.
And if it
really comes down to it, and I'm saying this as a way to be humorous...
...there are a million ways to eat cheap, and not just live off of ramon noodles. Smashed potatoes with a little shredder cheese, sour cream, salsa, etc...
I had to be super, SUPER, cheap for a month while trying to catch up on a car payment. I didn't realize that with my contract I couldn't default more than 20 days. Come the 30th day, it would have been repoed. So I had to catch up, STAY IN (which was hard for me being a college student), and basically stay on the computer to keep me entertained.
Ohhh...and crap, I totally for got about saving gas. Well actually I did mention it thinking that would be a way to save gas. But it totally slipped my mind that gas is extremely high now. It's $3.31/gallon in the burbs, and about $2.98/city.
By joining this forum you actually start gaining points. Each point is worth a penny, and when you reach $10 you have a check mailed to you, or have it put in your paypal account if you have one.