I work for a collections agency, I'm sure that is aparent to anyone who read's my posts. So I'm going to hit these one by one.
"NEVER give them your banking or credit card information. They will take much more than you authorize."
It is illegal to take any amount more than a debtor is authorizing. It is illegal to take any amount of money the second before a debtor authorizes it.
"NEVER do 'checks by phone' as debt collectors could empty your bank account, you have no recourse"
See above response to the first NEVER.
"NEVER send them money via Western Union."
Sending money by western union gives you a tracking number and a reciept. Depending on the type of debt (I deal with Pre-Charge off credit cards and my advice is for precharge off only on this instance) you are going to want your payment to be recieved before you get hit with another late and or intrest fee that could charge you anywhere from 10-200+ dollars.
"REMEMBER: Debt Collectors have NO power and NO authority and should NEVER be trusted. They will lie and cheat you to get at your money. If it's NOT in writing, it's NOT a deal."
If it is not in writting then it didn't happen. You are going to want to have access to a fax machine, if you are able. Or you are going to make sure you aren't throwing away mail that might otherwise be thought of as junk mail.
"BEWARE: Paying a debt collector will NOT get an account removed from your credit. They do NOT have that ability."
Unless they have bought the debt. In most cases only the client, the company you owe the debt to, has the adility to have it removed only.
"RECORD conversations with debt collectors (where legal) so they can be held accountable for breaking the law. Make sure taping is legal in your state first."
Also check the law to make sure that you do not hve to make the other party aware that the conversation is being recorded. Most recordings are thrown out of court because a party is not notified that they are being recorded.
Not all collectors are spawns of satan out to eat you alive for you failing on your obligation. Please read the fdcpa it is an important resource and guide for anyone wanting to honor their debts and even for those trying to avoid their responsibilities.
If you are swiming in credit card debt and are sarting to drink the water and drown then I suggest contacting a credit counseling service. But do your research before signing on. You want to go with a company that has a good reputation. You also want to be sure that each of your creditors accepts the proposal sent to them or you will be kinda screwed sending in the minimum payments only.
Keep in mind that just because your debt has expired within the SOL doesn't mean you don't owe the money still and it could stay on your credit report for as long as your states allow. It just means that a collection agency can't activly hound you to honor the obligation that you initiated.