I would like to start off by saying that I am a client of SDS and I am NOT a spammer or anything of the sort. That said, I would like to tell you all how I feel about Superior Debt Services. I signed up with this site years ago and no longer recall my log in info. When I signed up, I was contacted by SDS. I have been using them for 3 years now and I have never had a problem with them. I have had Priscilla since day one and she has been a very helpful and pleasant woman to talk to. Even if she's not in the office, there is someone kind sounding and courteous who is willing to help with any questions you may have. Would I recommend them? Hell, Yes!
For the past three years I have learned to live with out credit cards. Sure I was aware of how just a few purchases will add up and so on, but what got the ball rolling in the direction of being debt free was one slip up on the credit company's part. I had sent a payment in to the creditor on time as usual. But seeing that we had a holiday, my mail was delayed a day getting to them. So they not only tacked on a late fee, but also doubled my interest. It's been so long I don't recall who it was, but I do know after a few times they did drop the late fee, but not the interest. I don't like being ripped off. I've been ripped off prior to that and was not going to let it happen again.
When we moved to a new town make a new life for ourselves, we found ourselves facing down the barrel of debt again. We had no problem paying the credit card bills as we moved into our new home (we had some extra left over from the sale of our previous home). Then the unexpected happened, the job that I was hired for didn't pan out and I was now on the market in a new area. Believe me, out here it was and still is a struggling area for a computer artist. With the local college the kids will work for peanuts and their work shows. We tried our best to make minimum payments, but with interests high enough it was a losing battle. We even contacted the creditors and explained our situation. A few actually helped, but most of them didn't really care. We ended up slipping and never got back up to speed.
Then the calls started.
I never answered them, I knew who they were and what they wanted. I searched around and found a debt consolidation company that we put half of the cards in. That worked out fine until I was talked into refinancing my home to pay the cards off with. Well in order to get that ball rolling we had to drop out of the debt consolidation service, that was a bad idea. After a month past the due date of getting our home refinanced, we got word that the company doing it went under and we were on our own. Great. Then the phone calls started up, this time it included the other cards.
So I looked around online while researching phone numbers of collection agencies who had been calling me. I found this company who not only would work with me, but also would take care of the harassing phone calls. Now it was a relief to find them, because one other company I was going to use wouldn't deal with a few of the collection agencies and told me they would work with the debt after it was sold to another collection agency and if I was sued I was on my own. Whatever. So I found the one who claimed they would do everything and would help if a collection agency wouldn't play ball and wanted to sue.
All I pretty much have to do is keep a call log and send it and any mail solicitations to them via mail, fax, or email. With the internet, it's easy to find out who is calling you and the agent will contact them on your behalf and work out a deal. I did get sued though. I had a shady (like they all aren't) debt collection agency who didn't want to play by the rules and attempted to sue me for money they claimed they gave me. My agent hooked me up with her lawyers and we got it settled out of court.
My wife and I are technically finnished with our contract with SDS, but we have extend it because we have one debt collector who still wants more than what we have in our account with SDS. Then when it's paid off we will be out of credit card debt. That will be great because with over $20k in credit card debt, our monthly payments with our agency was around $350. After a year it went down, and went down the third year. So pretty soon we will have an extra $330 to save to spend on a vacation (which we haven't been able to do since we got into debt). That also will be great because I'm still struggling to find a decent job, so I'm going to freelance and hopefully open a shop in town and be my own boss. With the debt out of my hair I can start to build my credit back up.
So what did I learn? A lot.
But just a few things I learned is that banks do not care about anything you can or cannot do. As long as they get their money back when they want it, they will not bother you. I also learned that they really don't care if you are in debt, they will still send you credit card offers, even if it's from a bank who has sent you to collections. Collection agencies are scum, but I don't need to tell you that. They will not only harass you by phone or mail, but they will call you at work (yes they have ways to find out), and they will call your family hoping that they can shake them down for money. My father used to have a fun time cussing and arguing with them. They don't care. They bought your info and they want to milk you or whoever will pay them. Debt collectors will try to scare you with lying to you about putting you in jail or even having balls enough to threaten your life. Their tactics are all uncalled for, a few simple phone calls and mail-outs are good enough. Many people who are in debt want to pay them off, they need to be mindful of that. Save the BS for the ones who deserve it.
The most important thing I have learned and I will continue to do for the rest of my life is never be a slave to the plastic. I will pay cash (check or debit) for anything I want. If I don't have the money, then I don't need it. If I need it (medical, auto repair, etc.) then I will work out a payment plan. I do plan on getting one credit card that is not tied in with my checking account for emergencies that may arise. But I will not have as many as I had and I will not be wiping it out just to buy something I thought I might want. We have learned to look for bargains to make our dollars stretch. Thrift stores, resale shops, garage sales, outlet stores, the list goes on and on. I reuse and recycle as much as I can. It's a life style that I have been attune to before letting the debt get out of control, and I have grown to like it.
Chase, Citibank, Wells Fargo, Sears/Home Depot, I've fought them all and I am winning. Yes it was their money from the start, but when I needed assistance they didn't want help. But I got help and now I am coming up on top. With most or all of my creditors filing for bankruptcy I don't have any pity for them. They got into debt just as easily as they led the rest of us. But I do want to pay my debt off and I did something about it. If you need assistance, seriously consider contacting SDS and talk with them. Superior really helped me out, my other alternative was bankruptcy, and honestly I couldn't even afford the $2000 to start the proceedings on that!!
In my final statement, I would like to promote a book my father gave to me on my birthday a few years ago. It's called "How to Survive Without a Salary: Learning How to Live the Conserver Lifestyle" by Charles Long. You can find it on amazon.com, I've read this book three times and I go back to it to get ideas. It's a damn good read, and I recommend everyone read it. It has helped me not only change my life, but also helped me while I was getting out of debt.