Hi Denise,
I understand your situation. Don't fall behind in your utility payments, rent, food etc. You need to talk to your lenders and make them aware about your financial problems. Arrange some payment plans and stick to it. If you are unable to do it on your own, talk to a debt counselor for taking care of these accounts. He will negotiate with your lenders favorable for you. You can do a free sign up in this website and talk to a consultant for help.