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Hi guys. Just wanted to apologize for not being around the past couple of days. I was awaken on Sunday morning with some unexpected bleeding. I went to the emergency room & they had found that the baby didn't make it all the way to the uterus & actually attached in the tube. I had to have emergency surgery Sunday am. I've been at home recovering. I'm back at work today...which I'm physically okay to do, but not sure I'm mentally okay. Either way I'll make it through. Hope all is going well with everyone.
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lmk3524
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 9:58 am |
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I am so so sorry. My eyes really do have tears in them. I am here if you need me. Please keep us posted on how you are feeling.
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kashzan
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:00 am |
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i am really sorry and keep us posted on how you are doing. as always, we are here for you. 
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:03 am |
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I am also very sorry. Please let us know how you are feeling. Do not hesitate to to seek support and comfort from us if you need it!
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:06 am |
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LMK3524 ~ I know what you are going through. Before I moved here I also had a tubal that ruptured and I lost twins, one in tube and one in uterus. I also had to have surgery where I lost a tube and ovary along with 1100 CC's of blood and almost my life. Know I am here anytime. Just pm me whenever you feel the need, for I do understand what you are going though. You will make it. Know for some reason, God decided to bring that child home before it was born on this earth. But I can truly feel your pain! You are in my prayers
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:12 am |
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Thanks so much everyone for your support and thoughts. I truly believe that there is a plan for everyone in this world. I have had my one miracle, my daughter Sloane, and I am thankful for her everyday! I have truly been blessed with that little girl. I'm trying to get back into my routine as much as possible. Love you guys!!! thanks again for the kind words & support!
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:26 am |
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I am so sorry to hear this. I don't know what to say except my thoughts and prayers are with you. Send me a PM anytime if you need anything at all.
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:35 am |
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You are more than welcome. Heck that is what we are here for, each other. you have offered words of encouragment and support for me with my son leaving, now I am able to do the same for you.
Know you will never forget the little one that almost was, but time will heal the wound. Heck, even to this day, I still shed a tear for the ones that were almost... Please be sure to allow yourself to grieve. I didn't for a long time and it ate me up inside. Don't let that happen. Scream, cry, yell, stomp, beat the crap out of pillows, do whatever you need to do, but you need to allow yourself to grieve in order to really move on. This is from experience. My husband, (now), and I have not been able to actually have any babies. I have lost several after we got married, and it has been hard because I so badly wanted to give him a child of his own and have not been able to and now, I can't. I am thankful that he loves my two as if they were his own and my son legally took my husband's last name and my daughter wants to when she turns 18. Things happen for a reason.
Always here for you though
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:37 am |
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I am so sorry to hear about this..  Please know that you have a million friends here and we wish you well...take care
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:43 am |
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I promise not to let it eat me up inside. I haven't been able to cry about it yet. Not sure if it just hasn't hit me yet, but no worries..I will grieve in time I'm sure. I think the anger is just now starting to hit me. One tends to be sheltered when at home. Now that I've been at the office this morning it seems like the littlest things are setting me off. I'm sure some pillows will be getting it tonight, whether it be with tears or fists. I'm keeping a brave face on for now while I'm at the office.
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:50 am |
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everyone grieves differently....I had a miscarriage in 1997 (bliated ovum) which means the egg didn't develop completely and haven't been able to have children since then but I believe that god has a purpose for some reason and in time it will get a little easier..hang in there...and cherish the one you have..and remember the one that was almost...but will always remain in your heart.
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 11:11 am |
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lmk-I am so very sorry to hear this.  To echo the sentiments above, you are in my thoughts and prayers
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:17 pm |
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Thanks again everyone for the words of encouragment & all the love you've sent my way. You all hold a very special place in my heart!!!
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:08 pm |
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I am so very sorry. If I can help you in any way at all, please let me know. My prayers are with you..I know nothing that I can do or say can take away the hurt, but know that I care.
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