Thanks cannr. I'm really excited and scared at the same time. there's still a long way to go but I feel like I took a huge step forward today.
BIG. That's a real tough one. Unfortunately, before I found this forum, I gave them my checking account info with my other checking account - USAA in Texas. I talked to USAA today. They said that BIG first has to debit my account before they can send out a form to me to fill out "under penalty of perjury" not to let BIG ACH my account. Changing account #''s wouldn't help because the two accounts would still be connected if they kept debiting - which obviously they would. This is the checking account that I need to keep open. Closing is NOT an option. This is where the "legal although not moral" debt goes (Cashcall, ThinkCash) and a couple Prosper loans. I got on with USAA before they changed their membership requirements, so I can't close the account and be eligible for membership later. I can't get a checking account anywhere else because I'm still on chexsystems. So, they will debit $45 on April 9th,and then $40 on April 23rd - every two weeks after that it's $40 into infinity until I pay them in full. The principal amount is $350. I'm not sure what to do at this point with them. I spoke to them today and asked them for a physical address again, and of course, they refused. I told them they were offshore and illegal and what the state law was in Oregon. She tried to say that it did not apply because I first applied for a loan with them in 2005 before the legislation was passed. I told her that was total BS because I payed that off and then they called me back saying my credit limit had been raised and offered me another loan AFTER the Oregon law was enacted. She continued to insist it was all legal of course, and at that point I let loose, really let loose, and yelled and told them they were the scum of the earth and asked herself how she looks at herself in the mirror, etc. Boy did that feel GOOD.

I then called back and spoke to a nother person and politely verified with him that they were debiting my account on April 9th and he told me "to have a good day".
But really, I'm not sure how I'm going to proceed with BIG. I guess I will let them debit the $45 on the 9th, and then ask USAA to send me the form, and I'll request them not to debit for BIG anymore. Doesn't BIG just harrass you to no end, just like AIP does?