Here's some advice that has nothing to do with PDLS..Please do not let this interfere with your marriage. It is obvious that you are going to have some trust issues to work through, but there are worse things in life than this mess. I know, I have been in this mess. Once the smoke clears, please try to salvage what you have.
FF,
Trust issues for quite some time because I have not got over him doing this a year and half ago. Some of the trust issues I had with him was starting to fade and then this happens. Its like everything we even discussed about honesty and supporting each other no matter what a year ago fell on deaf ears and that is what is disappointing to me. But we will get through this part and he has agreed that once this is over ( wiht the PDL) I am taking over all finances and we are attending some credit counseling courses.
The way I read her post was that her husband went in each pay day and paid off the checks and then re-loaned. That's the way we have to do it here in my state. You have to pay the whole loan off, write another check, which is considered a new loan. At least, that's what I got out of her posts. So her husband was re-writing checks on that closed account and getting a new loan each time.
Cannr,
You are right this is what he does every two weeks. He has had the PDL with AA and CS for over a year so when he started with them the checking account he is using was open. Back in January we had some bounce checks that overdrew that accouont and had to close it and then pay the bad checks and bank fees. So we never opened up the account again. He just recently opened a new account in May wiht a different bank.
So Sass was right we can't do anything right now as far letting the loans go into default because legally I do not know what the PDL can do to him. I don't want to risk him facing criminal charges for writing checks on a closed account. He has to go back in next week on the 27th to pay them back and then borrow again giving them the recent checking account info. After he does that then we can let the PDL's go into default or stop payment.
I am so sorry if I confused anyone.
Now I have another question about opening a new account. So seeing as this recent accoutn he opened in May will be the one we have to use for the PDL and then close or stop payment on, should we open a new account somewhere else next week? I am confused because I thought someone said in another thread that the bank could come after us and withdraw their funds we owe them form the new account. I hope I making sense. I thought I read that the banks can do a sweep on new account opened later than six months old. Will we just be waisting our money putting it into a new account?