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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:27 pm Subject: what was your best present ever?

ok guys..Time for another one of those "get to know you" threads. I love the holidays more than anything!! I love to shop and bake, and I love getting gifts. Saturday I put up the Christmas tree, and I'm really in the mood!! I've been thinking about all of my past Christmases, and trying to decide what my very best gift ever was.

It's down to three...

My husband proposed to me on Christmas day 1997, in front of my whole family. The ring is gorgeous, but what if I said no??

On Christmas day 1998, we were pretty darned broke. I was pregnant, and we were both full-time college students. I was feeling really homesick for Florida then, since I'd only lived here 3 years at that point. I don't know how he got the money, but my husband bought me an authentic Dan Marino jersey that year, and put up 3 inflatable palm trees in the living room of our apartment.

The best!!! On Christmas 2002 I got my precious American Bulldog, Howie!!

What are the best gifts you guys got?

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:32 pm Subject:

Well fins, when we finally got ourselves straightened up or so we thought, my hubby bought me an english bulldog as my christmas present. He got a good deal on her. He bought her from the guy we bought our house from. I have one thing to say about bulldogs, well actually several, Angel is a huge eater, can clear a room in a matter of seconds, and is very stubborn.

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:32 pm Subject: My greatest gift

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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:40 pm Subject:

lol, I know about bulldogs clearing a room!!! Yep, my Howie is a huge eater, too, and VERY stubborn. They sure are great with kids, though, and they think they are lap dogs!

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:43 pm Subject:

I agree, Angel loves the kids. She pounces on them the minute they come home from school. We took her back to my grandparents over thanksgiving and she did the unthinkable and we rolled windows down and opened the back windows. We knew she did it because she looked up at us and gave a bark. Does your Howie slobber alot?

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:44 pm Subject:

Wow, best present...

My 3 kids - (3 gifts in one, what a bargain! LOL!) I'd have to say my 3rd was the hardest-won present I've ever received though - nearly killed both of us getting him here!

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:49 pm Subject:

Tammy...Yep, Howie slobbers, and she snores like a 300lb man! She has spots on her tummy and it's hairless, so it looks like a pig tummy. Does your Angel get nasty pimples on her wrinkly snout?

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:20 pm Subject:

Yes she does. The vet said it is K-9 acne. Angels belly looks like a pigs belly also. Her snoring is unbelievable. She can outsnore my hubby. LOL

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:32 pm Subject:

I would have to say my best present was my oldest granddaughter, Katelynn. My son was subpoenaed for a paternity test in August 1999, in Clinton County, which was positive. He had a 1-year-old daughter he had never been notified before this time that he had. Katelynn was taken away from the mother for severe neglect. To give you an idea of what Katelynn went through, when she was 2 months old (which was in February when it was about 20 degrees at night), her mother couldn't stand to hear her crying, so she took her down to her car and left her in the car overnight (without heat or food)by herself. Katelynn's mother and her mother's husband always had several beer cans laying around, which was also documented in Children's Services' notes. Katelynn was also found on more than one occasion to be at home alone when Children's Services stopped by (this was when she was 6 and 9 months old). Still, they gave Katelynn back to her mother and still my son wasn't even notified he had a child. Needless to say, my son and I were enraged. He said one way or another, he was getting custody of his child. I told him I would help him any way I could. We went to several court hearings (these were held in Clinton County, three hours from where we live) besides going to Clinton County's Children's Services every Saturday to visit Katelynn. Then came the overnight visits. We would drive out to Clinton County on Friday afternoon, take her home and then drive her back on Sunday afternoon. This went on for a month. My son missed so much work during this time, but he didn't care. He was going to do whatever it took. Luckily, his boss was understanding. We had so much snow that year, and it began early. The court hearings were always held at 9 a.m., so several times when there was snow, we would leave home at 4:30 a.m. just to make sure we were there on time. We went to every hearing and were there for every visit. Unbelievably, they were still leaning towards reuniting Katelynn with her mother. They had Katelynn's mother going to parenting classes, which she attended half the time. We really started losing hope because it seemed no matter what my son did, the judge was still in favor of giving custody back to the mother, despite Children's Services' recommendations that my son be given full custody. Finally, not even a week before Christmas, my son was awarded full custody of Katelynn, my first grandchild, with the mother having supervised visits by Children's Services. Katelynn is going to be 8 years old this year, and I thank God for her every day. She is so precious. No other present I've ever received comes near to matching that.

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:40 pm Subject:

Thank goodness the judge decided to make the right decision. I bet you enjoy every minute with her. It is horrible what happened to her. I hate to hear things like happening to children. It literally infuriates me when people mistreat babies and young children.

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:57 pm Subject:

I agree with you completely, Tammy. That's why it's such a joy to see her growing up to be a happy, normal little girl. And it's wonderful to see the bond she has with my son. He's such a good dad!

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:02 pm Subject:

Ahhh, that's so sweet dbaker. I always wondered what went through people's minds when I would hear of all these things being done to babies. People are really sick. It really, really, really disgusts me when I hear of a baby or even a young child being sexually molested. That is just sick. Another thing that bothers me is, women that would be a good mother can't have babies. Then there are the ones that don't deserve to have any kids, but have 4,5, or even 6. I'm not criticizing anyone, but I go to work everyday and bust my butt off, then you have these ones that have numerous kids, just sitting on their butts collecting a bigger welfare check.

Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:56 pm Subject:

That is a wonderful story about Katelynn. Our God is an awesome God, isn't He?

Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 12:55 pm Subject:

Oh wow, Katelynn is definitely the best gift ever. I'm so happy for you and your son!

Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 2:17 am Subject:

Good discussion going on here and I am delighted to see how much we all love our family Very Happy

Yes Lorri, our God is an awesome God Very Happy

However, I can tell you about a gift that is quite unique. You can gift a STAR to your beloved one, yes it’s possible. There are millions and millions of stars in the galaxy and not all of them have been named yet. International Star Registry is engaged in it. They can help you name a STAR. You can select a no-name star and assign it the name of your fiancée, wife, husband, kid w/e you wish. From then on the Star will be tagged with that name in the map of our galaxy and it will remain unchanged as long this universe is there. Isn’t it interesting Laughing

Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 12:55 pm Subject:

I have heard about the star program..You can also give an endangered animal, like a walrus or a wolf to a friend or family member too!

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