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Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 2:38 pm Subject: advice for the distracted..

Has anyone had this problem, I have tons to do but can't concentrate. I did something stupid on Saturday, kissed one of my best friends, he initated but I kissed back, now I am trying to get the courage to call him and find out what it meant to him and how this is going to affect our friendship... Any advice out there for me? I'm going crazy probably making this out to be worse than it is but it is bothering me.

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 3:25 pm Subject:

Pauli'sGirl -

from a personal standpoint, I'd say call him. What can it hurt? If he says it didn't mean anything to him, at least you'll know where you stand.

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 3:37 pm Subject:

SueBee, Thanks, I know I should call and I'm not expecting it to really mean anything except it was an innocent Merry Christmas kiss & sorry I slipped my tongue in your mouth, I just don't want to loose his friendship and I don't want him to think by me asking that I am expecting anything or dwelling on it, which I am. Dumb Girl that I am I'm overanylysising the situation most likely. Thanks again.

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 3:44 pm Subject:

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 3:56 pm Subject:

When you are sorry, just say it. Don't extend the silence between you and your friend. He may react in an unexpected manner but you will have your thoughts in front of him. If he is matured, he will understand you. I feel these things are pretty common and shouldn't be taken as a big issue. Over here, I find a girl apologizing for what happened. Usually, boys go through such tempted moments. But anyways, Pauli, you are clear with your thoughts. Just break the silence inside the box. Go, tell him. Smile

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:04 pm Subject:

It is better to face your fears, than put them behind you. I am like everyone else, JUST CALL AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE SORRY...

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:12 pm Subject:

And the next time someone wants to wish you holiday greetings--stand ACROSS THE ROOM and say "same to you!"

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:26 pm Subject:

LOL!!!

It's like someone burnt his lips sipping hot coffee. Now he will fear drinking anything. Laughing

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:28 pm Subject:

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:28 pm Subject:

Thanks to all of you for the advice and laughter, a bright spot in my day, love it! I will talk to him tonight and let you all know how it turns out Smile

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:34 pm Subject:

Keep us posted, PaulisGirl - we're all waiting with baited breath! This is better than a soap opera! (No offense intended, just having too much fun with this!) Laughing

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:36 pm Subject:

Glad I could give you some fixating drama today. No offense taken at all Smile

Someone else's drama is always better than our own, that is why soap opera's are so successful.

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:36 pm Subject:

As The Debts Linger?
Days of Our Debts?
All My Debts?
General Debtors Hospital
The Debts and the Debtors?

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:40 pm Subject:

Yes Lorri that was my submission to your blog, love or lust? I couldn't help myself Smile

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:40 pm Subject:

Lorri - you forgot "Ryan's Debt Hope" "The Indebted and the Beautiful" and "Santa Barbara Collection Agency"

Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 4:41 pm Subject:

I recognized your name---

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