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I have decided to take some time away from here. It is very apparent to me that I simply don't really have the tools or knowledge to really give advice. And when I do make a mistake...instead of this 1 person trying to help me learn she follows me all over the board to make sure she makes it obvious that I did make a mistake. I will check back in over the next few days and help Tania with her music. And, I am trying to help Bryan with a new avatar for his blog. You know I am the type of person if someone was really trying to help and learn....I would let them know personally that they made a mistake about a piece of advice. Instead of following every single post and making sure that they prove them selves right and that I was wrong. Now it is best for the person needing the advice to get the correct advice. So since this person would rather make it so obvious that I made a mistake instead of maybe helping me learn so that i could help in a better way....I think that I am hurting more than helping! I will still come visit...and I really hope my story stays up to inspire others. But, I really don't see that I have anything to really offer....because I am not a trained financail advisor...I am only a person really living through it. TY so much for all of your support. I have really gotten a lot of good help here....I did get the advice needed to get myself and my family protected against losing everything. And I thank you all so very very much for that. Please tell Cajun,Bryan,Steelers,finsfans, and all of the other mods....tY for me. God Bless!!!

Thanx karen,Sassnlucy, and all the wonderful poeple that have been very supportive. Oh yes and Morningstar...lest I forget...ty hun also!

I sent this personally to Mike first...but, I guess like you Steelers...sometimes I just speak my mind too.

I will be back over the next few days....to finish up some projects I was helping with. So I am not just disappearing....I am just going to keep my mouth shut except to pop in and maybe say hi every once in a while. Stanley,Anthony,Bryan, and Lawstudent I am very interested in keeping up with your blogs!
Good Luck to all of you with them....as for me I have decided to devote my time blogging for who I am supporting politically! So I will be busy!

I know this will make 1 person very happy....and that person knows who they are! You know you could have really helped me and I reached out to you...but, you chose to be argumentative,critical and deliberately hurt my feelings....and you,God, and I know that to be a fact. I hope you will think this last little bit over....and find just a wee bit more kindness and understanding in your heart! I will pray for that!

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Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 12:02 am Subject:

I don't quite understand, but don't leave because of one person, stay because of the rest of us. Also, if you were to join myspace, I'd gladly add you as a friend. Your post have been valiable here.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 12:17 am Subject:

I am not leaving ....just stepping away a little bit. And I would love to join your space. I am also going to busy setting up my own blog for choice for President. I have always been very politically active. I just think it's best to sit back for a while until I learn more. maybe I can learn it at your space. I will be back in tom. and find the link to join. Thank you....now I have to go figure out a blog...lol...hummmm...it's not so easy!

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 5:56 am Subject:

Hi Moondanzer,

I'm sorry I really don't know you as I have been not as active in the forums as of late. I really don't know the situation but don't let one person scare you away. It's okay to take a break. We all need that from time to time. I thought the forum was starting to straighten out a little. I'm not a financial advisor either, most of us here are not. We share our own experiences to help those that need it. I have learned a lot just by reading other's posts. Please don't feel invalid because you are valid here. Don't let one individual ruin this forum for you.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:03 am Subject:

Moondanzer,I have contacted Admin about the person in question. Let us know when you are ready to come back!

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:29 am Subject:

Moondanzer - I make mistakes too and I really know skwat about finances, I can share my experiences with others on how I have dealt with the pdls. Don't let one person scare you away - you don't kow - there maybe one person that you can help that is scared and lonely and doesn't know where to turn. Your experience could touch theme and that in itself is an accomplishment. Just remember - we are all like a pebble dropped in a pond - we do not know where the rings of water go or who they touch.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:48 am Subject:

I am sorry to see you felt unwelcomed....I hope that you come back soon. I too know little about finances but like to offer my help with my own personal experiences as well as doing the research for some people.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 7:10 am Subject:

This is a shame. I am really disturbed by this..Moondanzer, I don't want you to go. Hell, I don't even want you to take a break!! Don't ever let one person ruin things for you. This is a whole bunch of bs..I have read your posts, and I think you give wonderful advice. I mean that. Also, and quite possibly more importantly, you are supportive. I know a lot of people come here for someone to lean on and listen to them. You have done that time and time again. In a short time you became an important, active member here, and it will upset me a lot if you leave. So what if you don't have all the answers right now..You learn as you go. Trust me. Look, I have more posts than anyone else, and do you think I can always give quality advice? Hell no!! The only thing I know is payroll issues, and the basics of PDLS! But I learn a lot.

Please reconsider. If you need an ear, I'm here.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:32 am Subject:

Moondanzer, we all love you! I am sorry that someone is making it difficult for you to post here. I also think that you give wonderful advice. I don't know much about finances or anything either but I try to help in whatever way that I can even if it is just emotional support. Please don't leave. You are invaluable as a member and a friend.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:34 pm Subject:

Please, Moondanzer,I have read tons of your posts and have found very valuable information in them. I don't always post when I get read something from someone--that's just me--I am one that you have touched with your information and I would hate to see you leave or "take a break". (((HUGS)))

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:10 pm Subject:

Moondanzer- I am so sorry you had this experience, unfortunately, as of late, others have had the same problem. I don't know who you are refering to, but please take a break, and come back. You do have valuable info to share-your experience!! Others may have read about things, but you have the experience of what works, what doesn't, and tha's valuable. Please feel free to PM me anytime and talk!! We'll be here waiting for you! I, myself have been taking more breaks than usual, don't really like the way the forum has taken, but that's my problem..Take care of yourself-you don't need the stress!..Karen

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 7:44 pm Subject: debt

Moondazer, I felt bad because it took me a little while to welcome you. I havent been on as much lately as I would like to be. I would have to say 99.999 percent of us are not financial advisors but just ordinary people that have lived thru this HELL. I have no idea who is doing this to you but dont let it get you down. Some people find it necessary to correct people and thats ok if they know what they are talking about. I am the first to admit I have made mistakes. Please dont stay away for long. God Bless Kyside38

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 9:06 pm Subject:

I am an ordinary person who likes fukken with collectors, and I save all of my disdain just for them.

Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 9:45 pm Subject:

Hi Moon,
Thanks a lot for your help on Blog Images.But its really sad that you have decided to take a break from here.Only one person can't be the motivating factor to step down from such a nice and helpful community. Please change your decision and be here forever.

Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 12:34 am Subject:

My goodness I am really rather overwhelmed at all of the wonderful support. I really don't know what to say to everyone other than thank you. I really didn't know that some of you knew what was happening, and, I really did think I was possibly causing more problems other than helping. I just wanted to do what was best for the guest or first timer coming in and seeking advice. Oh my, and when I read where skipi?ss if mis-spell I am very tired had been helped by my information....I began to think maybe if I am not a proffessional advisor..maybe I have helped. I know I really love it here. And I do so want to learn and help even more. I am not leaving. However, I will be away for a while because my daughter graduates next week-end! And I am going to Washington State. I will be back after that. TY all so very very much for the support. and, a very big TY for those of you that let me know that you have had the same experience....I think that really helped. I thought it was just me. So when this very hectic week is over and I get back home.....I'll be back in my corner ready to go! I can tell you one thing....the mods and almost every single member here is fantastic. Well almost every single 1. But, I am tough and I will survive it! I'll be back sometime next week. TY Bryan....ty all! I'll try to start over yet once again, and, try very hard to not over step any toes. I just hope when I do come back that some of all of this tension can stop. Because this is the 3rd time I know off and I only joined a few wks ago. So See ya next week.

Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 5:06 am Subject:

Moondanzer,

I'm glad to hear you will be sticking around. Like it's been said, don't let one person scare you away. Unfortunately, this has been happening as of late and I know people are working to correct these problems.

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