Another update....things taken care of at the bank as far as the PDLs go. They are flagging our account and told us to make sure we watch the account and it turns out they ar very familiar with Route66!
As far as assitance with the mortgage payment, they could not help us right now, due to account and right now our credit.
Husband did talk to the mortgage company and they are going to send us some paperwork to fill out to see if we qualify for maybe reduction in payments or something like that, but also told him that if we could get a payment with his next 2 paydays we would be ok, but problem is we have utilities, car payment, insurance and we have to get some groceries and such, so....not sure if we can swing all of that within his next 2 paydays. He did not realize what all I go through dealing with people. He never does it and it has always been me and he never wants to know anything because it "upsets him and stesses him out". He told me he was sorry for putting everything off on me and will start helping a little more on these things, which helps me a bit emotionally. I don't feel like all the weight is on my shoulders and I have some help sharing the load.
I know it is a long hard road ahead of us, but with the support and encouragement I have been receiving on this board is going to help me through it.
I am so very glad I stumbled onto this site (and did by accident). It has been a lot of help and I have been passing information onto others about what I have read and this site, so I hope they will come here and see that they also are not along.
Thanks everyone!!!