just spoke with amex again, as they told me to call back on the 11th. they said to call back tomorrow, as the cycle technically doesn't end until 12 am. anywho, i asked general questions about their hardship program. it is 0% for 6 months, and then 9% for an additional 12 months. as with discover, they automatically withdraw it from an account. i asked about 1-2 month deferral to catch up, and/or adjusting the payment amount due, and they said they don't offer either option. i know i won't be able to make the minimum balance, so i asked the person to change my contact number to my cell number, and my cell or email is to be the only method of contact. planning ahead for defaulting unfotunately. it is true that i am never home, so i didn't completely lie to him! i just dont want them bothering my wife...this is my debt.
i did read on cnn that amex is paying customers $300 and offering settlements to accounts that may default due to high balances. if they would take 10%(about $4k), i'd pull the money from my wife's school money(not attending right now anyways) and settle. then i could pay down chase and discover, and put some back into her school account.