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 Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 2:32 pm Subject: My battle with debt |
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I would not have a battle with debt had i not gotten married to a money grubbing lazy woman. I have a well paying job with the government and my wife decided to take advantage and try to get whatever she wanted well that blew up in my face i was broker than you wouldn't believe. I became broke basically because of my inability to say no to her which is consequently resulting in our immediate seperation and divorce i wish there was some other way, but i don't see one.
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xjd4220
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 2:40 pm Subject: |
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xjd: I think the first thing you need to do is take responsibility for your own actions. I understand how it hurts to be in the position you are in, however you really need to be more positive that you, and only you are able to pull yourself through your situation. Perhaps your wife is to blame for the trouble you are going through but it is ultimately your life that only you can fix. Have you both been to any type of marriage counseling, perhaps it will work to save your relationship, maybe not, but would it hurt to try?
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PaulisGirl
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I am sorry that you are going through such a hard time of handling your debts and personal issues. Please don't let these things affect your job otherwise everything will mess up. With that income from the job, you will have to take care of your daily needs and pay the debts. A counselor will be calling you shortly and discuss about your debts. He will help in fixing a plan with your creditors.
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aciotsf
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 4:54 pm Subject: |
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well first off it's not just your wife faults it's also yours for not being able to say no to her but now it's your job to get your credit back right. but if you think even a little that you and your wife can work things out then do that and you both can work together to fix your credit.
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blinkyberry
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