I will give you a hug!!!! I know its tough and nobody is WHINING GUEST! Making a decision about your financial situation is very important. I havent told anyone that settlement is not the way to go. I myself have used settlement and used a company.
Im just concerned about this particular company.
Im not real familiar with bankruptcy but what i do understand is chapter 13 you keep your assets but have to pay some of it back in payments and you must be timely or your creditors can come after you again. Chapter 7 if eligable you get wiped clean but you loose your stuff. I could be wrong though so take this with a grain of salt. like i said i dont know much about bk.
42 months is alot of time for settlement if you ask me, your chances of getting sued are pretty high. at the longest 36 months. I chose 2 years wich worked pretty well.
either way you must do something Time is pretty important so good luck!