Hi martha, it is infact very difficult to judge as it'll depend upon your situation. For some people bankruptcy remain the only option. It may or may nor be your case. Hence some more information is required. If you are comfortable in revealing your financial situation to us, we can see if we can be of any help to you.
Personally I'm not an advocate of bankruptcy. It should always be the last option. Filing bankruptcy means that you are losing your assets, still it doesn't take care of all your unpaid debts (student loans, child support etc). Additionally, it ruins you credit and remain on the report for 10 years.