Hi dlbenthusen,
Welcome on board

and please relax, you're amongst the friends now. This site offers a
free financial consultation , which I think may come useful in your case.
Anyways, IMO debt consolidation may not be the right solution for you. the debt consolidation program often leave the secured debts and only include the unsecured debts.
Also, the
debt consolidation loans often require collaterals to back, which is again not a possible situation for you, as you've hardly built any equity on your home.
If you're falling behind with your mortgage, ask your lender to work-out a payment plan with you. It'll help you to avoid foreclosure. They may agree to reduce your payment or extend the term. Some may even agree to suspend the payment temporarily.
However, you can take the benefit of the accelerated debt consolidation. Though it’ll ruin your credit but may also help you to get-rid of your
credit card debts.