I have been off the forum for a year and a half because I have just been overwhelmed and feeling like nothing would help me ... my husband and I have been having major problems, I had a bad car accident and needed surgery, I lost my job, tried a new job that I hated, so now have been jobhunting for almost 6 months. All of my credit cards have not been paid for 6 months, my mortgages are both over 2 months late, and I feel like I am drowning. Because of my marital problems I don't want to sell the rental house in the other state because I might need to move into it, but every day that goes by we get further and further behind. If ONE part of my life was okay it would be different, I am normally a pretty positive, happy person, but I am at the end of my rope right now. Sorry to be depressing but I am hoping that coming back to the forum and trying to respark my life will help drag me out of this hole. A job would help ha ha ha.