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I am 21 years old and I never received child support from my father I want to know how I will go about doing that? You can email me the procedures at xxxxxxxxxxxxxx or at xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Thank you very much!!

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Replied on 11-17-2008, 02:59 PM
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you have to deal with your county and state child support divisions ... good luck!


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My story is pretty much the same. My husband owed about 26,000 to his daughter. The first year we were married all of our state and federal refunds were sent to her. At first I was a very very upset. Then we finally discussed it, because I knew he had a daughter, but I did not know that he was that far behind. So anyway, to make a long story short, it took us 7 years of having our state and federal refunds to pay all of that money to his daughter. She definitely deserved it and now it is all paid off. My question is, if anybody can direct me in the right way, my question is, now that his arrearages are all paid off, there is actually a difference in our favor. She received our federal refund of about 6,000 and there was only 4,900 and some change owed on his arrearages. Does anyone know if we get that money back or what? I am sorry to hear about everyone elses child support problems, that is a shame when a man can't step up to his responsibilities, they are definitely cowards and selfish. Any help from anyone would be great!
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Sub: #20 tax return
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if i am paying child support, would i get that back in my tax return?

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a guy shouldnt go to jail because he isnt paying child support!... whats he gonna do pay it from jail? umm not... i went throguth this with my mom and dad.. and putting him in jail only hurts the child. But since the kid is living with his father now he wont have to pay child supprt but he will still owe back child support 2 the state.

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Sub: #22 back child support
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Okay if my ex owes me alMost 4,000 in back child support will I get his tax refund if he files this year?he hasn't filed in 2 years..also if I do get it,does ìt go through the attorney generals office?

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Sub: #23 they move on without CS or kids
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Some of these men are a trip . They go years without taking responsibility of the kids they have and get married and start another family and the first thing they say is the ex is mad.
Well, maybe i should have not taken my kids to dinner with me and i would be married with kids too. This is sick. Alot of times men try to lock down the ex with the kids because they still want them and they hide behind the other women to make you look like the hater. These sorry m#@##$$F@@@@ need to take their responsibilities with them when they do there shit and maybe CS wouldnt be on their ass.

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It is actually considered a feloney (sorry can't spell) offense to not pay obligated child support. You can have ORS involved and they will involve the attorney generals office on you behalf to sue him



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I have never heard that not paying child support is a felony ...




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Replied on 02-09-2009, 07:56 AM
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It can if it goes on long enough.

From here......



Last year my ex owed back support. I got his regular refund as well as his stumulis refund.

He died last year owing me over $2000.

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I wans't aware of the felony part either. I know that they will put you in jail if you refuse long enough to pay. My daughter-in-law is still fighting them. Her ex finally got on disability-he did this to avoid child support originally.

The courts said that when he did and got his back pay, that she would get a good part for the kids. Well, he not only got it and back pay, but came by her house and gloated about it and wha all he brought. The child Enforcement agency just says, we are checking on it and there's nothing you can do.. even though he is several thousand behind

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Thats is just rotten.

Someone messed up somewhere along the line. She should have gotten the back pay.

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We are going to the Child Enforcement office today. My daughter-in-law is not very good at handling people in authority, so I am going with her and find out what happened..

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Replied on 02-09-2009, 08:49 AM
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Well Good luck.

The sad thig is if he already got that money there is no way they can take it back.

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Thanks. I know from my oldest son being disabled that if they over pay you or shouldn't have paid you, that on your next few checks they will take it out of that.

What a jerk- to come by and let your kids hear you say that you got new tires for your truck, went on a spending spree, but can't help put food in their mouths or clothes on their back--or even buy them anything!

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I know how that feels.

My ex always claimed he did not have the money but he still bought comics for his collection. He was literally buying comics until the day he died but had not paid any support in his own in almost a year. He died a month after our youngest turned 18 owing over $2000.

At least our kids got his collection. We are going through it now and it is going to take months to sort out but I hope eventually they can sell it for something and they can each get a nice nest egg to put away in the bank.

He had many debts, much more than any assests so the collection and some personal belongings were all they got from him.

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