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I finally told my husband of my payday loan stupidity. He was so upset and man did he let me have it. I hate keeping secrets from him but this one, I felt so dumb, I could not tell him. I am now drowning in fees and crap and I had to tell him. It was making me sick. Well after he cooled off- he said we are going to straighten this out. I do feel he is now going to question if I am holding things from him but hopefully, we can get pass this and I think we will. Has anyone else found themselves in my position?




sexy27 - try starting your own thread with your questions - you will get more answers that way. If you join this site as a member (free of charge), you will be better able to track your posts under your username.

kcooks - you did the right thing in telling your husband, believe me. Secrets about money have led to the demise of many a relationship. It's a mistake I made in my own marriage years ago, and will never do again. I'm divorced now, and determined not to remarry or even date until I can get a complete handle on my finances and be able to go into a relationship without any financial baggage. It may be years...or it may never happen. But complete honesty about finances is the only way to go. You're exactly right when you say you're concerned that your husband will think you're hiding other things from him, now that you've told him about the PDL issues. He may think that - but now is the time to sit down with him and explain that you got in over your head, and didn't know how to tell him. Make sure he understands that you aren't hiding anything else from him. Maybe it would be good if you two could set up one night a week where you sit down together and go over the finances and bills to be paid for the week, so there's no uncertainty in the future about money. Best wishes to you!

Sub: #11 posted on Mon, 09/01/2008 - 18:36

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