Tired of telling them she doesn't live here

i think these people are more worried with your daughter than you.i really dont understand how a mother hates so much her daughter,if she disappeared in the road and she is "bad bone"(what's you?)never forget she is your daughter.i think "such person"is your blood and
i dont understand why you ,brenda 1111 dont write a letter for these people and tell them that you really dont know the address of you daughter because she disappeared in the road and you dont care if she is dead or alive because you are not a good mother.if you are jocking,brenda1111,
i think is a very bad joke.

Brenda I am sorry that you dont know where your daughter is- that must be very painful. I would just send the mail back like you are doing. You are not responsible for her debts. Best Wishes KYSIDE38

Oooookay.....I think that went a little far, but anyway....

Brenda - if there is a specific creditor you are talking about, please feel free to post the name, and we will try to help you deal with them. We can offer advice on how to handle your situation with the creditor.

The situation between you and your daughter is private and should remain so.

KYside - please don't think I was responding to you - your post just showed up above mine. Sorry if there was any misunderstanding there.

i feel very sorry for all missing persons.
i dont know if is my ENglish or my verb to be(WHAT ARE you? or "what's it?)that is wrong,because "such person" is not any person.SUCH PERSON CANNOT BE A MISSING DAUGHTER.i hope i never have a missing person in my family.i know many people that give everything in their lives to find theIR MISSING PERSON.

I have never had a person in my family up and leave, so Brenda, I can only empathize what you must be going through. Tania, I really don't think any of us can judge unless we've actually gone through this. We don't know the circumstances, and we don't know that Brenda hasn't gone to great lengths to try to find her daughter. Some people just don't want to be found. I hope that one day you will be reunited with your daughter, Brenda. In the meantime, I would do as Kyside says as far as the court papers are concerned. Good luck.

I too am sorry Brenda for your situation. Tania, you should keep your mouth shut unless you have something to say about her debt situation. How dare you judge her. You have iritated me beyond words with your unnecessary comments.

Brenda, my thoughts and prayers are with you. My son is the most important person in my life, and I don't think I could go on if I were in your situation. I wish you the best.

Brenda, have you consider sending a Cease and Desist communication letter to the address listed on the envelope? It wouldn't hurt to try I guess. I'm really sorry to hear that you're daughter is not in your life at this time. Tania, I never read anywhere in that post that Brenda was an uncaring mother, sometimes, for whatever reasons, and reasons sometimes unknown to family, people just don't want to be found. I hope you hear from your daughter in the near future Brenda, I can't imagine what you must be going through at this time.

My daughter ran away because of bills piling up and her divorce and our son her brother died in our home because of a seizure and the pain was to much for her.Now her bills,I have to send her mail back she does not live here and I really don't know where she is.As far as loving her I do with every fiber in my being.I am worried if these are court papers and she doesn't show will they have an arrest warrent for her,I have told her creditors and credit agencys that she doesn't live her and no I don't have any forwarding add or phone number.Yes she has called but with a phone card and she never tells me where she is but we do say we love each other and I know that she is allright for that moment.I just want to know what the next step is with the credit agencys and the if these are court papers and if they still don't believe me what then? One of these letters is from 281050 po box 572233 houston tx-77257-2233 I have never seen an address starting with a number 281050 the reason I know it is a credit agency or one of her creditors is because the man calls from houston tx all the time asking for her .The other envolope just has an address and it is Department 716
po box 4115,concord ca-94524,that is another place they call from ,both pieces of mail came yesterday and addressed to her.Should I go into court and tell the judge I don't know where she is?I don't know what else to tell her bill collectors.

I think you can relax a little in regards to being arrested. If these court papers are for a court date related to civil cases for nonpayment to creditors, there is no debtors' prison she would have judgement by default against her. I'm so sorry to hear about your son, these are tough times I'm sure. God Bless you.

Brenda I am with Steelers God Bless You especially this time of year. I would go to the judge and tell him the events and that you dont know where she is at and she is unstable at this point. I think it would help. Best Wishes. Please keep posting and keep us informed. You are in my prayers. KYSIDE38

Brenda - I'm with Steelers and Kyside on the debt issue - I don't think you have anything to worry about. Unless the debts are in your name along with your daughter's name, you are not responsible for them.

I hope your feelings have not been hurt by the careless words of one individual - and my stating your situation between you and your daughter should remain private was only intended to ward off that individual's comments. It was not intended to offend you or anyone else. I just meant that your situation with your daughter wasn't anyone else's business to comment on - let alone criticize you for.

I wish you all the best. The debts should be the last thing you worry about right now.

I'M SORRY for my words.words are words and this dont mean that i cannot change my mind for good.i'm feeling like a cold stone,no heart and i have no right to judge anyone.only GOD CAN JUDGE PEOPLE.
i think my mistake is to be too sentimental and care SO much for people.

Tania, I think it's very big hearted of you to apologize. You are and have always been a very valuable member here.

I'M VERY SAD BECAUSE I LOST my best cousin 3 days ago.he dies with aneurism and he was like a brother to me.he was the only cousin in the side of my father.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss Tania. I know that you are always under so much stress taking care of your husband. I hope things get better for you.

thanks finsfan 13 and always when i need a angel you came to tell me about good things.

thanks steelers 1 for always help me and you are a angel,too.

Tania, thank you for apologizing for the harsh words earlier. We all make mistakes. It takes courage to admit them.

I hope you will soon be in better spirits. So sorry to hear of your loss.

Tania, I am very sorry to hear about your cousin. Hang in there, we are always here for you.

Tania, I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin. People die so quickly with an aneurysm. I know what a shock it must have been to you. All the best to you.

Brenda, You and your daughter will be in my prayers. How traumatic for both of you with the loss of your son. If there's anything we can help you with, we're here for you. Take care.

i wanted to thanks everybody of debt consolidation care for be always so good with me,my husband and everybody that needs help in this forum .i think sometimes i go to far because is very difficult find people like my family,some friends,some good people in this world and some people that are so good like debt consolidation care members.
i'm very sad because my cousin was like a sun.he was a very simple person and he loved us so much.we love him very much and he go to be always remember for us.

Tania, You will always have him. No one can ever take him away from you.

Tania, I am so sorry for the loss of your cousin. My only sister died of the same thing at the age of 36. I will always miss her. You are in my prayers. KYSIDE38

kyside 38 you are in my prayers,too.God,jesus crist
bless you and your family.I'm sorry for your sister
and one day you go to see her again.i believe that
one day i go to see my cousin and all people wonderful i have losted in this life.i'm a believer of God,jesus crist and i believe in the another side after life.

I too have been getting mail sent to my home over and over again, but not to Brenda, but to someone esle. This man does not live here, and I kept sending them back, but continue, as you do, getting his mail. These people are blood hounds, and I guess the only thing to do is contact the Postmaster General and tell him of the problem. I think then, and only then, will they send someone there to put a stop to this mail. Otherwise, I will just discard them until they've spent enough money and envelopes to make a difference to them. Maybe we all should do the same; because when it costs them enough money, they're only hurting themselves, and should stop.