advice for the distracted..

Pauli'sGirl -

from a personal standpoint, I'd say call him. What can it hurt? If he says it didn't mean anything to him, at least you'll know where you stand.

SueBee, Thanks, I know I should call and I'm not expecting it to really mean anything except it was an innocent Merry Christmas kiss & sorry I slipped my tongue in your mouth, I just don't want to loose his friendship and I don't want him to think by me asking that I am expecting anything or dwelling on it, which I am. Dumb Girl that I am I'm overanylysising the situation most likely. Thanks again.

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When you are sorry, just say it. Don't extend the silence between you and your friend. He may react in an unexpected manner but you will have your thoughts in front of him. If he is matured, he will understand you. I feel these things are pretty common and shouldn't be taken as a big issue. Over here, I find a girl apologizing for what happened. Usually, boys go through such tempted moments. But anyways, Pauli, you are clear with your thoughts. Just break the silence inside the box. Go, tell him. :)

It is better to face your fears, than put them behind you. I am like everyone else, JUST CALL AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE SORRY...

And the next time someone wants to wish you holiday greetings--stand ACROSS THE ROOM and say "same to you!"

LOL!!!

It's like someone burnt his lips sipping hot coffee. Now he will fear drinking anything. :lol:

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Thanks to all of you for the advice and laughter, a bright spot in my day, love it! I will talk to him tonight and let you all know how it turns out :)

Keep us posted, PaulisGirl - we're all waiting with baited breath! This is better than a soap opera! (No offense intended, just having too much fun with this!) :lol:

Glad I could give you some fixating drama today. No offense taken at all :) Someone else's drama is always better than our own, that is why soap opera's are so successful.

As The Debts Linger?
Days of Our Debts?
All My Debts?
General Debtors Hospital
The Debts and the Debtors?

Yes Lorri that was my submission to your blog, love or lust? I couldn't help myself :)

Lorri - you forgot "Ryan's Debt Hope" "The Indebted and the Beautiful" and "Santa Barbara Collection Agency"

I recognized your name---

I find it amusing these folks in the soaps never seem to have financial difficulties and never balance a check book, if they did we wouldn't watch, I assume that is why the writers don't put that crap in

What about the new one, Passions? Or an oldy, Another World (Another Debt?)

I don't watch soaps, so those were the ones I could come up with---in the 70's there was one called Love of Life---how about "Love of Debt"?

If they put in real stuff---NO one would watch cause it wouldn't be an escape it would be a REALITY. Hence, REALITY SHOWS

Instead of Ryan's Hope, Debtor's Hope. See what you've started Lorri! LOL

Remember Dark Shadows from the 60's---Dark Debts! ooohh that sounds like it could be really scary! :twisted:

Would those be the debts obtained on the "shady" part of town, or debts that are illicit?

you could always go with Days of our Debt. Good job changing the subject guys, what about my problem? Just kidding, this is great!

They would be the loan sharks and in the VERY creepy part of town (scary music playing here)

LMFAO!

Paulis Girl, I would call him, it's like ripping off a band aid, you anticipate it but once it's over with the initial sting is gone and you are relieved. You may be surprised and he is thinking the same thing you are and just afraid to call you.

okay----just for you--Paulis Girl
All My Tongues
Pauli's Kisses
Pauli's Slip
Kisses Not Meant For You

Forgot to ask, What does Pauli think about all of this? LOL

or---
General Kissing
Another Kiss
As The Tongue Slips

Steelers, The sting from an old bandaid is usually not as bad as anticipated, you are right there, great analogy. I'm out of here for the night so I'll talk to all you wonderful folks tommorow.
Lorri-hehehehehehe...good ones. Later-Pauli

Alright, if anyone out there wants to know what happened here you go: I called him, and asked him if he has been avoiding me because of the situation. Good News: He has been busy and not avoiding me(my biggest fear). He is coming over tonight and we will talk more. I will update ya all tommorow....until then the sands of time and all that.... :)

Woohoo! You go girl! Keep us posted - you know we're all waiting with baited breath! Coffee in hand, parked in front of the computer..... :lol:

Well don't stay there all night SueBee it is only noonish here. I too am waited with baited breath...

Kiss him again because of the New Year. If that????????s allowed.

That would be nice I think I just might.

(in a cute sing-song voice) two little lovers sitting in a tree--K-I-S-S-I-N-G :D

Where are you in Cali--I might want to come spy on you (LOL). I am in SoCal.

Get video, Lorri. ;)

nor cal. The saga continues: "so why did you kiss me?" the girl asks Boy answers " I apologize for that it was disrespectful to you, we had a little to drink and you were so cute", so girl says "I kissed you back and so I am sorry too". Back to being friends....The end. (for now perhaps, perhaps not?)

IMPO there is no going back PLUS he called you cute, just think what would have happened if you had more than a "little to drink" I love a good love story

DON'T EVER APOLOGIZE FOR KISSING A GUY!!!! Call him in a few days, if you are really daring and say "I am still pretty cute, do you still wanna kiss me?". Or wait until you see him in person and say it! Sounds to me like you too are not being TRUTHFUL about your feelings!!! :lol:

You already had the "weird" kiss...Now any other kisses will come easier.

And if he kissed you once...He'll prob. want to do it again. ;-)

I love my Chris, but I do miss those "first kiss" days. It's always fun. I like the "Holy moly" butterflies...lol

LOL Jessi - I think I've forgotten what those "holy moley" butterflies are like....it's been a LOOOONG time since there were any "first kisses" in my life!

It's only been 4 years for me, so not so long I don't remember. :) But since it's been 4 years, I guess my last one, was my favorite? LOL

Have you ever kissed so long your lips got numb?

I plead the 5th on the grounds that I might incriminate myself.

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Well, I DID!

Yes, my lips have gone numb.

I remember the first guy I kissed slobbered so much that he would leave a spit film on my face. It was so gross.

Now today at age 51, if I kissed someone for that long, my lips would not be the only thing gone numb! (my butt, my legs, my hips, my arthritic fingers, etc.)

ROFL.....I'm dyin' laughin' over here Lorri.....isn't it sad when we get to the point where we can't think romantic thoughts without thinking of how to accomplish the deed without hurting ourselves? LOL