HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel bad for you, my friend. This is your personal issue with your girlfriend, you will have to take care of it separately. Don't tell this reason to your credit company. They will get very harsh on you. Try some professional help for paying your debts.

I'm sorry for your unfortunate circumstances. Nothing ever happens one at a time, does it? First, contact the credit card places and let them know your situation. Second, put in applications anywhere that will take them. Don't just go by adds in the paper. Two of my jobs I got by having a resume in hand and walking into the places. One place needed the extra help but didn't have an extra typewriter (yes, that was way back when). They brought in another typewriter and gave me a make-shift desk. It worked. The second place said they had an opening but she never got around to putting it in the paper. Also, check out a temporary agency. Sometimes you can start out as a temporary and go permanent. The nice thing about that is you can see if you like the job before committing to it on a permanent basis. Good luck to you, and let us know how you're doing.

good_smoke -

Welcome to the site! I'm sorry to hear of your circumstances. I do hope things will get better for you soon.

Since you have registered with this site, a debt counselor will contact you for a free phone consultation. They will be able to offer you debt consolidation or settlement plans that may help you with this situation. You may choose to use their services, or find another agency in your area, but I definitely recommend talking to a debt counselor soon - time is not on your side in this situation. The longer you wait, the more late charges you will accrue, and the better chance there is of this damaging your credit rating.