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Is Divorce rate higher for Internet Savvy people?

Date: Tue, 01/30/2007 - 20:46

Submitted by robinayala
on Tue, 01/30/2007 - 20:46

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Many feel that divorce rate higher for Internet Savvy people with following valid reasons.
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  • Chat rooms and sites which reunite friends make it easier for unhappy husbands or wives to meet other people and possibly go on to have an affair.
  • They work long hours (even at home) without giving enough time for family affairs.
    What is your opinion about it? Do you think it can be true?


  • Summarizing the feedbacks posted under a similar debate on BBC website:

    Most of the people are against blaming Internet as the marriage breaker. Trend shows that it's not Internet but, couples who break the marriages. Internet is just a tool for communication; if people cannot commit, then it's their own problem, Internet is no way responsible for this.

    I am quoting a statement that sounds quite good:
    Quote:

    Blaming the internet for the breakdown in marriages is like blaming an umbrella for the fact that it's raining.


    However, there are comments that state Internet has facilitated the breakdown process but it is not the only factor behind divorce rate hike.

    Please go through all the comments and give your own views; so that we can conclude if Internet is innocent or not!

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/3617496.stm


    lrhall41

    Submitted by robinayala on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 23:32

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    Before the internet, the scenario where couples had problems was like this. Him: Sitting in a chair or at the table engrossed in the newspaper, shutting the rest of the world out. Her. Engrossed in anything other than conversation with him i.e., cooking, cleaning, knitting, gardening, etc. Avoidance was and is the culpret.


    lrhall41

    Submitted by DebtFairy on Thu, 02/08/2007 - 00:29

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    Stella, science and technology have always been used negatively. However, we cannot blame technology for that, it's the brain who used it in that way! Boredom is the factor that kills relationships. If Interent is not there, people would read newspaper or spend time in kitchen and neglect the interpersonal affairs.


    lrhall41

    Submitted by stanley on Thu, 02/08/2007 - 02:24

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    About the divorce stats...aren't less and less couples getting married?

    Anyhoo, the internet can be no more responsible for a divorce than a lamp. People are what make and break relationships.
    And what makes a successful relationship?
    Trust
    Love
    Good communication
    Commitment/devotion
    Respect
    and some other stuff, too.


    lrhall41

    Submitted by Morningstar on Thu, 02/08/2007 - 23:43

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