I need help BADLY!!!!

I try to be polite when I post, but to be honest, I don't totally buy your story and it has really disturbed me what you wrote, especially what you are doing and what you are doing to those kids. I hate to hear of people using their kids or grandkids for their own personal gain, and that is what I am getting from you. If you truly want to better yourself, then do it! You know, all of us hit hard times now and then, but me, for one, would not stoop to doing what I am reading you are doing. I went through a separation and divorce and for a while I lived on $800 a month and I had 2 kids to support, had to pay rent, utilities, groceries, gas, etc. It was hard but I did it. Yes, I had family near by, but I did not ask them for anything, but yes they did help my kids with the extras, like scouts, band, etc. My son's T-ball coach paid for a trophy for him because I could not afford the extra $15 it cost for one, but he saw me trying to come up with the money. Yes, we all want easy money, but getting it the way you say you are is just wrong and it is degrading to you. Why would you want to do that to yourself? What would you say to your daughter or your granddaughter if they were doing this? Then you grandson....if what you are saying is true, what right would you have to take his money when it wasn't yours? Wouldn't you feel better putting it back for him so he could have something to fall back on in case things didn't work out for him or for his future education? Like I said, if you really want help, and I am not talking about just financial, there are programs out there. Seek them out. No one is going to put out an effort for you until you put out an effort for yourself. There is a saying, God helps those who help themselves. And I believe that is true in more ways than one. God helped me find this place so I could start getting rid of my payday loans, which I am about done with and then I can move onto getting out from under other things, meaning medical and such. I am the one that had to decided to do something about the mess I was in. No one was going to do it for me. I guess you need to look within yourself and decide what you want. Look at what you are doing. You came on here asking for help. People here were more than willing to offer advice and to help you by directing you in the right direction and then you went off in a totally different direction and now, no one knows what to believe with you. What is true and what isn't? What do you really want? How hard are you willing to work, honest work, to get to where you want to be? What are you wanting for yourself and for your kids and grandkids? Only you can answer those questions. I have no idea how religous you are or even if you believe in God or not, but if you do, then I would be looking for guidance from "Him". If you ask and truly want to make a difference, "He" will help you. Maybe not as quickly as you want it to happen, but it will happen. The choice is yours. You and everyone on this forum can go back and forth all day long with comments of one type or another and where does it get anyone, nowhere. Right now, I don't know how many people really believe you as to what is really going on and no one really believes you want help. Maybe you need to step back, re-read what you have said and go from there. I am sure if you truly want help and are ready to make a change, people will help, but not with how things are now. I look at what was said and to be honest, I believe it is a bunch of BS. I am sorry, but that is what I am feeling. Too much bragging about your "services" and too much bragging and sounding like you are using your grandson. It is one thing to be proud of your family and want to share what is going on, but it is another when it sounds like you are putting others down and trying to make yourself sound better than the rest of us. If your grandson is truly gonig to have this happen for him, then great. That is wonderful, but to be honest, I don't think too many people believe it. Could be the way you told everyone about it. Anyway, I think I have said all I can say...the rest is up to you. Take a long hard look in the mirror and decide what you want to do, where you want to be and how you want to get there. Good luck.

Thank you, I really needed that. Im actually crying right now. You are so much nicer that that mean fat moderator steelers. I feel sorry for her. Can you have a talk with her to. She seems so mean and cruel to people. There might be something wrong with her. She seems kind of crazy. Like mental problems. I know I have some issues but I think she may be worse off than me.
Thanks again

You shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. What if your grandson falls into health problems or gets hit by a car? Then your ticket out of hell will be gone.

Steelers' only issue right now is that she won the $121 million lottery last year, but the check they wrote her bounced.

LMAO---Steelers! You've been holding out on us? :D Sorry to hear your lottery check bounced---when they send me mine, I'll share it with you :D

Yes, I must confess, I am now a multi-million dollar winner of a bounced $121,000,000 check. And yes, my "fat" self, all 105 pounds on this 5'2" petite frame is very upset over it. And as far as mental problems, I deal with liars, crooks, and mentally disturbed such as yourself guest daily. And if you are crying, good, you should be ashamed of yourself, you are a pitiful excuse. Oh, and Lorri, once I get the check situation straightened out, I will gladly share it with you.