in need of help

I am so sorry to hear about your son. You should give more time to him. And please be strong.

Is the bank calling you for the money? Tell them what you are going through and that you are not going to run away with their money. If needed, show them the hospital bills. You will pay them back soon.

I agree with Bridget. Right now is the time to spend time with your son, that is what is the most important thing. I am very sorry to hear about your situation and I hope that your son's conditions improve. The priority at this time is spending every minute you can with your little precious baby. I hope that you and his mother can come to some kind of understanding.

I tried telling them what the money was for and they said that they just needed the money right away. I can't come up with that money. I am a 22 year old male working at a job that pays 7.75 per hour. I am really starting to just fall apart here. I have tried everything that i could think of, any advice as to what i need to do?

Perhaps you could call and make an appointment to speak with the branch manager of your bank and explain the situation to them, that you are not trying to defraud them but these are the facts and you have to focus on your son right now but you are willing to work out some kind of payment plan with them.

The amount is not so big for the bank that they cannot give you few extensions. Sit with the branch manager and get the arrangement done in writing.

I am so sorry to hear about your baby. Know that prayers have been sent.

Do go directly into the bank and talk with the bank manager and if you do not get any satisfaction, talk to the vice president and just keep moving up until you get a satisfactory answer. Maybe get something in writing from the hospital or from the doctore explaining what is going on and most importantly, you and your child's mother need to put things aside right now, for the sake of your child, and spend as much time with him as you can.

will keep him and your family in my prayers.