Need a pick me up today

Awww sorry debt that u have to miss out on a good time with ur mom! But think about next year, outta debt and maybe able to take a trip with her!!
Set a goal for something special for next year this time!
Hope ur day goes better,
Ang

Thanks, Ang. I guess that will be a good goal. And, we always go out to visit my aunt in CT, so next year I can go and I'll be debt free. I'm just tired, which makes things always seem worse.

Yea it does, i'm also tired today woke up at 3am with stomach problems and now gotta get myself to work! SIGHS! And also don't forget, "that time of the month" lol (sorry guys)
Have a good day,
Ang

Ang,
I hope that you have a better day! Thanks for your kind words.

I'm sorry to hear you can't go this year. But like you said, next year will be good,no debt!!You can really celebrate then! Get some rest and take care of yourself..Karen :D

Debt, I am sure your mom knows why you are working 2 jobs. I think she will understand that you cannot go because of your work. But maybe you can have a dinner date sometime soon to make up for the time you would have spent together that night. But also when your debt free make those plans with her for the trip, I think she would enjoy that much more than just one night.

Heck if I wasn't so scared of Milwakee (I get soooo lost driving through there lol) I would drive down and take your mom for you.

It will be ok and she will understand, thats what mom's do when their kids grow up and try and make it on their own.

I know, it's just hard. I'm trying to get there. I just miss her, you know?

Aawww yes i DO know what u mean! Mom's are the greatest gift God ever gave us!! I'm so sorry for u! Wish there was something i could do or say to help!
:(
Ang

yes, my mom is the greatest. She is the best person I know. It's so stupid that I'm so upset. I mean, I'm 25 and I miss my mom.

Don't feel stupid!! i'm 45 and there are times i miss my mom!! Especially when i'm sick as i am today! :(
That will NEVER change debtfree!! Doesnt' matter how old u r, ur mom will always be just that, ur mom!
I have a daughter ur age and we see each other ALL the time! She calls me anytime she has the slightest ailment, she'll call me cuz she has a headache! lol And she's a mom too! :)
Take care hun,
Ang

Thanks, Ang. I guess I just needed some "mom" ing today, even if it's not from my mom. I appreciate your words so much today.

I know how you feel debt, my mom was my best friend and when I moved (only 35 miles away) it was sooo hard for me I used to see her everyday. I missed her so much. But now I am 37 and I miss her even more because she passed away 5 1/2 years ago.

I know you need the money (otherwise you wouldn't be working 2 jobs) but have you thought of taking the day off to take her? It's just another option. But you know, you are feeling blue because of this, just give her a call and tell her that you miss her. That will make her feel good and she will say the things that moms always do to make their kids feel better.

Thanks Puddlejmpr, and Bossy for your words, today.

Your very welcome!
I'd hope if "my" daughter were in need of some 'mom'ing someone would provide it for her if i weren't around!
Hope ur day gets better debtfree,
Ang

Well, I mean, she works, too. She only works about 10 minutes from my apt, but she lives about 30 miles from me. And, she still takes care of my brother, who lives with her. She's just a busy lady, and it's hard to find a time that usually works for both of us. So, that's probably more of why I'm upset, because she has time, and I don't. I do have the day off on Saturday, and asked her if we could get together then, and told her I missed her. So, we'll see.

VERY GOOD! Maybe u 2 can get together on Saturday! I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that it works out and u get to see her and spend quality time with her then!
YAY,
Ang :)

Your welcome debt. I am sure you 2 will get together on sat. and you will have a great time. Then you will look back at this and have a little giggle.

Take care and I hope your day goes better!!!

Yeah, I think I need some "Mom" time. So, I hope that this works out, too! Thanks, Ang.

Thanks, again puddlejmpr!!

I'm 27, and I still miss my mom! So I can understand when you are feeling tired and emotional, it makes things worse. But hey, you have it better than I do--it's really hard for me to see my mom as often as I'd like because I live in WI now and she lives in IN. So when we do together it's really special. We still call each other several times a week, and I make sure to call her during the weekends, or she gets sad. Your mom understands that it's not going to be easy for you at this time in life getting out of debt, but she is there for you and she's rooting for ya--I know my mom is there for me emotionally when I need it. :)

Yeah, I guess I do have it pretty good, and, I'm glad that there are others that feel the way I do.

I am so sorry you can't go to Milwaukee like you wanted to. I hope you get to go see your mom Saturday. I think that all of us need some momming every now and then. My mom lives about 1600 miles away from me and I haven't seen her in 5 years. She is coming to visit for a couple days next month. I miss her every single day and sometimes I get really sad because I miss her so much. Look forward to Saturday, and try not to be too sad. {{hugs}}

Thanks Sassnlucy! You are so sweet!

Thanks!!!!....you are sweet too!!! And you will be debt free before you know it-and at such a young age!! :):)

I have been feeling so much better. I was crying at my desk this morning, I was so upset. I don't know why I got so emotional over it. I think sometimes, we just need a release, and maybe that was my body trying to tell me that.

well, I will still have some debt, but my credit cards, and payday loans will be gone forever! I will just have my car loan, and my school loans.

Those are not bad debts though!!! The school loans will pay for themselves and you HAVE to have a car.....I have a lot of student loans too.

I am glad you are feeling better! Sometimes we need a good cry, and it helps to be able to vent to someone about it, too.

You all have been so great to me today. I could feel your positive vibes through the Internet today! Now, if I could feel that way about these stupid payday loans, life would be nearly perfect.