Hello Friends
Date: Fri, 10/05/2007 - 11:54
Ok, enough of the pity party. Know I do pop on and read a little bit, but just have not been in the mood to post. You all are always in my thoughts and prayers. Just don't forget about me! LOL :lol:
Miss you guys, but don't want to come on here and be a downer and whine and cry about things. Seems if it weren't for bad luck, I would not have any luck at all!
Take care all!!!
((((((((lots of hugs to everyone))))))))
Sorry things have been so sucky at work 2nband. Hope you are ab
Sorry things have been so sucky at work 2nband. Hope you are able to find a new job soon.
2nband, you have every right to share your sad moments with us.
2nband, you have every right to share your sad moments with us. We all are a family and if you don't share with us, you will feel all alone. It's feels nice to take off some weight from heart. You love your husband and kids and it's natural with the way you are behaving. You don't want them to become sad, that's why you are keeping them away. Time will heal up everything. Remember, these tough days are not going to last forever! Its one moment that will make all the difference. :) Stay positive!
Thanks Tiffany ~ I guess when the time is right, it will happen.
Thanks Tiffany ~ I guess when the time is right, it will happen. Just wish it would hurry up! I hate being miserable. Always been one that has had the upbeat personality and out going, per say. Use to be that way here, but about the past 6 months things started going down hill and now that my old boss is gone, it is even worse! This guy is so****!!!!!!! No fun at all!
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I know being miserable is no fun. It affects others as well, or
I know being miserable is no fun. It affects others as well, or so my husband tells me!!!
I pray that things will get better for you soon.
I agree with both Tiff and Mike! U can come here any time u wan
I agree with both Tiff and Mike! U can come here any time u want and i'll be here for u 2nd! We're here to share "all" times together not just good times!
Hope u find something soon and move ahead in ur life!
Ull be in my thoughts and prayers,
Ang
Thanks everyone. I do appreciate it. I just don't want to burd
Thanks everyone. I do appreciate it. I just don't want to burden anyone with things. It seems like all I do right now is come one here and be a downer with things going like they are. I keep hoping that I can come one here and get back to being my old self and start helping people again. Kind of hard to do that when you feel like you can't get your own life straightened out, and not just financially. I want to be positive for everyone and not so negative, so please, if I am not on here for periods of time, don't think I have jumped ship. Just trying to deal with things. Now is the time I wish my mom was here for comfort and hugs. I miss my "mommy" hugs I get when she is around and her brushing my hair to make me feel better, all the things I do for my daughter she use to do for me and right now, wish she was here. :cry: Think I will give her a call later on.
:hug: Here is a group hug from everyone! I hope things get b
:hug:
Here is a group hug from everyone! I hope things get better for you at work. It sounds like you are really upset at the way you have been treated and I don't blame you. Just remember that if you always do your best, you will always come out on top. :wink:
Dear friend i pray always to god be with you and your family.
Dear friend i pray always to god be with you and your family.
I'm really angry with your manager and i think seriously that when a manager always are blaming
You without motive is because you are a lot better
Than him.
I have a director(a) one time that was my friend
And became later my enemy when i worked with her
In brazil for a government in brasila,capital of brazil.
She teach me everything about legislation of public
Service,university,students,etc.like a paralegal
And i didnt went to school to be a paralegal,i took
Many books to my home and i was ready for my job.
In brazil i didnt need a diploma of paralegal because is not like a diploma of a lawyer,a doctor, enginer and others professions that need diplomas to work.
My problem began when she left me in her place(vacation)and i really did a great job and i was proud and happy.everybody tell me my work was great until the other director more important than her told me it.
When she came back from vacation she didnt speak with me.she treating me like a enemy.i'll never in my life take her job or position to me.she was my friend and i love her.i learn many things because her and she was mad with me.
She told the big director to fire me and the director told her i was a very good work and he need me.
I have to ask for my transfer and they put me to work in a better place.a place that need to be fix
And i love it.i began to research all legislation
And each day was great to see the progress of my documentation of all legislation the other new director(a) ask me.this was my last job in brazil.the new director(a) love me so much that she wrote a poem for me.
She ask me always every legislation about students,universities,etc and i gave everything to her always in time. Her name was anete.she ask always the secretary to tape all my work.
I have to leave my job in 1981 because i came to this country.i have a problem with a boy friend and my father took me here for a year and i found my husband and married him in 1983.
2nd band karen dont be worry with your manager.
He is a bad man.
You really have everything in your side.
You are a very brilliant and wonderful girl.
You have everything to be a success in your life.
I'm your great fan and i really have great admiration for you.
Look for a better job and dont forget always you are
Sensational lady and a sensational member of this forum.
Many blessings of god for you.
Hang in there! You are not a burden, just like anyone who comes
Hang in there! You are not a burden, just like anyone who comes here with a problem is not a burden! Sharing it gets it out into Gods' light, where it will not have the power to harm you. If you need to talk, or vent, I am here!!..karen :D
2nBand..You do whatever you need to take care of yourself and if
2nBand..You do whatever you need to take care of yourself and if posting on here helps, by all means post. People can either choose to read it or not. There are many of us here who will listen and support you. The biggest thing I have taken away from being a member in this community is being here for each other through thick and thin and when someone is having a tough time it seems every rallys to get them through. Why should you deny yourself of this. You have given support to others, let us help you this time and any other time you need it. :hug:
2nband....you take care of YOU and keep yourself healthy....jobs
2nband....you take care of YOU and keep yourself healthy....jobs are available pretty much everywhere..there is always something else out there better than what you have!
Keep your chin up. I think that since your new boss has come in
Keep your chin up. I think that since your new boss has come into play are other people feeling the same way that you are feeling? Have you thought about approaching your manager's boss? Do you think that would work or do you think that would make things worse? Do not let your new boss run you out of your office that you've been with for 5 years.
Is this person younger or older than you if you don't mind me asking. (I know you're probably thinkin "what does that have to do with anything") just wondering if they are an eager beaver or an old grouch stuck in their own ways.
ladybug
Hey Karen, I totally feel your pain and completely relate! God
Hey Karen,
I totally feel your pain and completely relate! God must love bad bosses-cuz he made so many of them! Here's my story, which will make you laugh: At the hospital I work at, we just finished a huge survey which our managers' bonuses were riding on. We did well and saved their money--and instead of getting rewarded, we all got this voice mail: "We want to celebrate you by having a potluck. Bring your favorite dishes to share!!" In short, it's like they said it's your birthday and pay for the present!!!!!! It torked off EVERYONE in EVERY role in my office--from manager to clinician to clerical.