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Date: Wed, 02/06/2008 - 08:56

Submitted by lmk3524
on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 08:56

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Hi guys. Just wanted to apologize for not being around the past couple of days. I was awaken on Sunday morning with some unexpected bleeding. I went to the emergency room & they had found that the baby didn't make it all the way to the uterus & actually attached in the tube. I had to have emergency surgery Sunday am. I've been at home recovering. I'm back at work today...which I'm physically okay to do, but not sure I'm mentally okay. Either way I'll make it through. Hope all is going well with everyone.


LMK3524 ~ I know what you are going through. Before I moved here I also had a tubal that ruptured and I lost twins, one in tube and one in uterus. I also had to have surgery where I lost a tube and ovary along with 1100 CC's of blood and almost my life. Know I am here anytime. Just pm me whenever you feel the need, for I do understand what you are going though. You will make it. Know for some reason, God decided to bring that child home before it was born on this earth. But I can truly feel your pain! You are in my prayers


lrhall41

Submitted by 2nband on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 09:06

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Thanks so much everyone for your support and thoughts. I truly believe that there is a plan for everyone in this world. I have had my one miracle, my daughter Sloane, and I am thankful for her everyday! I have truly been blessed with that little girl. I'm trying to get back into my routine as much as possible. Love you guys!!! thanks again for the kind words & support!


lrhall41

Submitted by lmk3524 on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 09:12

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You are more than welcome. Heck that is what we are here for, each other. you have offered words of encouragment and support for me with my son leaving, now I am able to do the same for you.

Know you will never forget the little one that almost was, but time will heal the wound. Heck, even to this day, I still shed a tear for the ones that were almost... Please be sure to allow yourself to grieve. I didn't for a long time and it ate me up inside. Don't let that happen. Scream, cry, yell, stomp, beat the crap out of pillows, do whatever you need to do, but you need to allow yourself to grieve in order to really move on. This is from experience. My husband, (now), and I have not been able to actually have any babies. I have lost several after we got married, and it has been hard because I so badly wanted to give him a child of his own and have not been able to and now, I can't. I am thankful that he loves my two as if they were his own and my son legally took my husband's last name and my daughter wants to when she turns 18. Things happen for a reason.


Always here for you though


lrhall41

Submitted by 2nband on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 09:35

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I promise not to let it eat me up inside. I haven't been able to cry about it yet. Not sure if it just hasn't hit me yet, but no worries..I will grieve in time I'm sure. I think the anger is just now starting to hit me. One tends to be sheltered when at home. Now that I've been at the office this morning it seems like the littlest things are setting me off. I'm sure some pillows will be getting it tonight, whether it be with tears or fists. I'm keeping a brave face on for now while I'm at the office.


lrhall41

Submitted by lmk3524 on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 09:43

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everyone grieves differently....I had a miscarriage in 1997 (bliated ovum) which means the egg didn't develop completely and haven't been able to have children since then but I believe that god has a purpose for some reason and in time it will get a little easier..hang in there...and cherish the one you have..and remember the one that was almost...but will always remain in your heart.


lrhall41

Submitted by ladybug on Wed, 02/06/2008 - 09:50

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lmk, My hart hurts for you and your family. I went through fertility to have #4 son ( the first three are my bonus children that came with hubby) and lost a baby before he was born. Like your little one, he is my blessing and my angel. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless.


lrhall41

Submitted by RoxyNY on Thu, 02/07/2008 - 05:20

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lmk, I hope you are okay. I am so sorry to hear this news. Please believe there is a reason for everything. My heart goes out to you and your family.


lrhall41

Submitted by on Fri, 02/08/2008 - 17:55

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Hey everyone!! Just thought I'd update. I'm doing much better both physically & mentally. I had a bunch of photos of my daughter & family printed friday evening. Bought some frames & spent all weekend putting collagues together. It was very theraputic & brought lots of peace & thankfulness to me for what I have been blessed with in my life. Thanks again to everyone for all the prayers, support & kind words! Love ya!! Lisa


lrhall41

Submitted by lmk3524 on Mon, 02/11/2008 - 08:33

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