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In over my head in debt what should I do?

Date: Sat, 02/23/2008 - 19:11

Submitted by anonymous
on Sat, 02/23/2008 - 19:11

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I have found myself with almost 100K in unsecured debt. This is due to several reasons. I am now to the point that I have almost maxed out all of my credit cards staying current on the revolving debt. I took a 50% pay cut in my job so that I could have a more flexible schedule with my kids. Within about 6 months I SHOULD see my income start picking up again, but right now I am afraid that I am not going to make it until then.
I was told by a business person to just stop paying on a couple of the larger debts. Keep paying on one of my credit cards, my house and truck. Then once back up on my feet again make arrangements to pay off the debt at a lower rate. I have worked so hard to have good credit doing this scares me, but at this point I don't know what else to do. Any and all suggestions would be wonderful.
Yes we do own our house and have equity in it,BUT my husband will not let it be refinanced again at this point.


Contact your creditors and inform them of your situation...some have hardship programs that may prove invaluable to you. If you let a debt sit unpaid for too long (especially on a high balance), you may be sued for the debt (liens and garnishments to follow, per your state's laws).

Bankruptcy, chapter 13 is another option--it isn't the end of the world.


lrhall41

Submitted by Morningstar on Sun, 02/24/2008 - 04:36

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I know it is hard to take a pay cut just so you can spend time with your kids. I commend you for taking that step. I think it will be well worth it in the long run. I wish to one day do that. Enjoy time with the kids. They grow so fast!

As far as the plan you are considering, to pay the smallest debts and your house and truck, it is a great idea. A few months ago I considered that. However, keep in mind you are assuming your income may go up in 6 months. There is a chance it could but there is also a chance it may not. That is what happened in our situation. I stopped paying the high debts and kept paying the smaller ones now we are paying nothing. My husbands income was suppose to go up but it took a dive and we are scrambling just to pay the necessities. There is no money left to settle the high debts. We are now looking into filing bankruptcy at 96k cc debt and 2 car loans. We sold our home thru a short sale. It is a mess but I am working on it. I hate to see someone get into this situation.

Like the previously advised, call your creditors and see if they will put you on a hardship program.Do not be surprised if they decline. Only 1 of mine would put me on one. Now that I am delinquent-the offers are rolling in for lower interest rates and hardship programs, etc. All that came a little too late. I started out wanting to settle my debts but now have decided to file BK. It is not the end of the world. As a matter of fact, knowing there is a way out of all this mess made me feel a little better.

I stopped paying on my high debts in December-I know some people have stopped paying theirs early last year and still have not been sued. Keep in mind everyones situation is different and there are no guarantees.

Read through this forum-there are a lot of good tips and stories on here. I know with almost 100k in debt, it is very stressful. You can do it. I wish you all the best!


lrhall41

Submitted by girlndebt on Mon, 02/25/2008 - 08:52

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lrhall41

Submitted by debt20 on Tue, 02/26/2008 - 22:10

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