FYI's Update

Hello FYI,

Sorry to hear that you are struggling to find a job even when you are more than capable of getting one. Now-a-days, the job market has become a tough one and it is quite scary to know that enough efficient person like you too finding it tough to land a job.

But never lose hope....because...If there is a Will, there is a Way.

The best part of all is that you have a wonderful family to support you in your low-times when you need them so much. In addition, we Debtcc community memebers are here by your side too.

Wish you a very happy 13th Wedding anniversery (in advance) and also wish you a wonderful life ahead.

Jason :)

FYI, I definitely agree with Jason's sentiments: I'm sure with your skills, qualifications, and desire to succeed, you will find that perfect job before you know it. Just don't get disheartened or feel discouraged in the interim.

Man, I felt like I'd been hit in the head when you posted about the experience with potential employers and your salary "requirements." I always cringed when I responded to an ad for a job and the first sentence of the ad asked you to reply with your salary requirements; most companies use that as the first round of the screening process. They must feel if you made more at your last job, you might not be happy with what they offer. Even if you have been unemployed for a lengthy period and would probably be willing to accept just about anything.

The way I looked at it, if the potential employer seems to be more worried about how little they can pay an employee (rather than something so trivial as, oh say, job skills, education, knowledge, drive, achievements, etc.) then I wouldn't want to work for them.

Once trick I learned, I think I read about it on the internet somewhere, was to respond to inquiries about salaries with a "it's negotiable" type of statement; not actually telling them what you would like to make or how much you make/made at your last job. Especially if they ask for it in the job advertisement of even the first interview. And if they do bring up the fact you might not be happy with what they are offering for the position, I always responded with a "if I'm hired to do a job, I do the best job I can regardless of the pay" type of BS answer.

It's all a game, the company tends to BS you during the interview, and you in turn BS them during the interview. If your BS ends up wowing them, over all the other BS they heard from other applicants, you got the job!

Funny thing, in the third and final interview with my soon-to-be employer, they finally got around to the "salary requirement" question. I cringed when I advised him what I had made at my last job, and saw him jot it down on his notes and the resume' I had given him. I figured that was it, I'd probably never hear from them again.

So imagine my surprise when I was offered the position at substantially more than that!

You could have knocked me over with a feather!

So you never know, something you least expected and pleasantly surprising might be waiting right around the corner for you.

Good advice Ron, I would never have thought to put down "negotiable" about salary. I will have to remember that, because you don't want to shoot them a high expecting wage or even a low expecting wage, that I think it is an unfair question and kind of puts you on the spot.

Yeah, I forget where I read that. I am sure, however, it was within the past year, as I have been reading every kind of hint or tip on job hunting and interview questions I could get my hands on for the past year.

The Internet is a great resource for those kinds of tips. Not that they are "cookie cutter" fits to all particular situations; however, you can take the message they are trying to get across and tailor it to your particular needs.

The questions of my lengthy unemployment and health problems were very difficult for me. I was reluctant to tell any potential employer any specifics about my situation as my past employer made my health problems common knowledge to all my co-workers, without my consent.

Which, correct me if I'm wrong, is illegal.

A co-worker called me one day, when I was out on the 3 months disability, to tell me she had heard my supervisor playing a VM I had left for her that day to a co-worker and laughing and making a big joke about it. I guess I must have sounded groggy from medication when I called, as I was asking an important question about my paycheck.

I failed to see how she could have found any humor in it at all, much less playing it for a co-worker.

When I called HR to file a complaint, their response was that my supervisor and the other employee had denied it. Then I responded by advising the person that told me what was going on sat right outside my supervisors office. I was also sure she had no problem recognizing my voice as I have left her a number of VM's relating to work in the past and was positive she couldn't have made a mistake. And I guess they were missing the most important part: how did she even know I had left a VM for my supervisor that particular day? I sure had not told her, she was the one that called me to tell me what was going on.

The HR director got kind of pissy with me at that point and I advised her it had to be illegal for my supervisor, or anyone else at that company, to make my health situation common knowledge to my co-workers. I was also reasonably certain if I or the woman that advised me of what my supervisor was doing was retaliated against, I would definitely be consulting an attorney to find out about my rights regarding this.

I could tell my days were numbered after that conversation.

I know I am thinking about rejoining the work force after being on disability for three years...but how do you answer that question "what have been doing all this time, when you don't dare disclose your current health status". :roll: Whenever I have disclosed in my three previous employments that I had MS I was fired for "poor work perfomance" within a different agency than I originally was in...yeah right I really believe that considering I was employee of the year in 1999 with my previous employer, the state government agency that I worked and lived in for 7 years.

I have a feeling that I have been "black balled" out of any positions in my state government as I had filed complaints with the worthless as T***ts on a bull NEOC against the two agencies, one of which is, get this, Health & Human Service of all places where I originally started working in 1995 which at that time was Department of Social Services.... :twisted: at, :twisted:....

I can't survive on the measly $1,028.00 I get a month on disability and I am only 42. :twisted:

I just need advice on how to go about answering those questions if I am lucky enough for an interview is all.

Ron I totally agree on the "negotiable" answer I can not tell you how many aps I have personally "roundfiled" (trash can because new aps priced themselves out of a call-back or even a second look)...i.e.----if a job is paying $10 an hour to start and you put $12 starting salary desired..you are out of the running automatically..however if you get called in for an interview and you can in person represent yourself and let it be know why you are worth more if you get hired...that is what counts--ALWAYS put negotiable on salary requirement Always!!!
Lady if you have only been on disability for 3 years I would fib a bit..tell them your husband was making a great salary and wanted you to stay at home but with the economy being the way it is ..you are forced back into the work force..hopefully they wont check your background..and believe me..if you make a good impression at interview many employers won't check into your past..it happens every day good luck to you!

[quote=UnemployedRon]

The questions of my lengthy unemployment and health problems were very difficult for me. I was reluctant to tell any potential employer any specifics about my situation as my past employer made my health problems common knowledge to all my co-workers, without my consent.

Which, correct me if I'm wrong, is illegal.[/quote]


Got it in one, my friend. That's a HIPAA violation [federal], and reasonably serious, at that. It's very likely also a violation of one or another state law, and almost certainly various company policies, as well. In your shoes, I'd have been on them like a cheap suit.

Thanks guest, I am just a little hesistant and paranoid about trying to go back to work to tell you the truth, however I am still applying and hoping for an interview all at the same time.

Oh well, I guess if it is meant to be it will be.

Well good news. I was offered a job pending drug and background check (all will clear fine). It isn't the job I am excited for BUT it's a job and a decent paying job as well. The schedule will allow me to search for other employment as well.

It won't start until the end of the week and I have a job interview tomorrow. If I get a better offer I'll take it but it will be a longer commute than the one I was just offered so it needs to be decent.

sounds like things are turning around for you my friend i'm so
happy for you. :D :D 8) 8)

Yea for you!! At lease it will be a start, until something better comes along, and it will.

Late Congrats to your son on his birthday amd your anniversary!..karen :D

FYI! Congratulations!!!!

Definitely, keep up the job search even though you are employed. You might find something better paying and more rewarding.

Besides, it's always easier to find a job when you have one.

Guest, that was great advice To LadyBug. It shouldn't be hard for her to fudge the reason why she was out of work for 3 years, advising she was taking care of her family.

I actually read about a new trick, on the Internet, that some job seekers have tapped into and thought it was pretty crafty. Some job seekers are purchasing those "pay as you go" phones (like tracphone, go phone, etc.) activating the phones and using the phone numbers as references/past employment verification contact information. Of course they answer the phones (and I think they even come with voice mail these days?) and give themselves glowing recommendations.

Now I'm not advocating dishonesty in searching for a job, just passing along some information I had read.

I just want to add to lady... I was guest in above post..advising her to fib a bit...girl..don't be paranoid..stand up and represent!!!! tell them why you think you are the best candidate for the job! you have represented yourself very well here on this site..(granted a computer gives a shield for not dealing with people directly)..but I am sure you can represent yourself in person in the very true and real way that you have done here....your real character will shine through in an actual one-on-one interview..don't be paranoid and don't be afraid..let them know why they will be lucky to have you in their employment!

Thanks for the encouragement...I appreciate it..I did apply for a part-time receptionist position at a nursing home that my friend is a cna at. It only pays $9.00 an hour and the hours are m-f from 4:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. My only concern is if it will affect my meidcaid and medicare which I need desperately for my medications as one medication alone costs $8,000.00 a month, no joke (MS medication).

I currently have a request for my caseworker to contact me to let me know how this will affect my eligibility for medicaid..like make over the poverty level.

Well I found a job and also signed up for college as well. The job doesn't pay anything near to what I'm used to but it will schedule me around school hours. I decided to go for my Associates degree for nursing.

Good for you, good pofessional choice, my sister is an RN and makes wonderful money.

Keep us posted:)

Congratulations!

Good choice on the nursing degree. That seems to be a field that will always be in demand and not very difficult to find employment in.

Not sure about where you live; however, here in Florida (God's waiting room) nurses are always desperately needed!

Congratulations, again, on finding a job and going back to school!

Yea!! Congrats on the job and going back to school! I think that will be a really wise choice for your future.

You will always be able to find a job in that field. I have one friend who is a RN and he travels state to state and makes lots of money, I know that isn't possible for you though.

Hang in there, everything is going to work out!!..karen :D