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Date: Fri, 11/13/2009 - 11:13

Submitted by Shazzers
on Fri, 11/13/2009 - 11:13

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I seldom - if ever talk about my personal life to anyone, but, here I go.

I will be moving back to Ohio. It's not what I want, but I don't have an option.
I don't know if I will ever return to Idaho again, I am at the point where I don't count on anything or anyone any more.

I have always been independent and very proud, but I am returning to Ohio with my tail between my legs because I am flat broke. I moved to Idaho with big hopes, now I have none.

I will be depending on my sister and her husband for awhile, living with them until I can get back on my feet again.

I couldn't have given up anymore than I did for the guy I love. I gave up my job, apartment, furniture, car, friends, retirement plan, family and everything that was anything to me to lead an average non-extravagant lifestyle. I am very disheartened at this point and feel invisible.

So, as soon as I get all my ducks in a row, I will be on my way back to Ohio to start over, again. Only this time, I have absolutely nothing to start with except my clothes and my cat.

Some time, within the next two weeks my sister will be buying me a plane ticket back to Ohio, one way. So, I'm not sure when I will have access to the Internet, but hopefully not too awful long.

I will continue to be around until I leave. Don't write me off, I will return as soon as I can!


Shazz, i have been in relationships like that, it is why i never finished college and am in a dead end job :( (i realize i could go back anytime but you know how life is once you start having bills to pay and people to take care of)
i will miss you, come back soon :) good luck


lrhall41

Submitted by bea2ls on Fri, 11/13/2009 - 11:45

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Originally Posted by bea2ls
Shazz, i have been in relationships like that, it is why i never finished college and am in a dead end job :( (i realize i could go back anytime but you know how life is once you start having bills to pay and people to take care of)
i will miss you, come back soon :) good luck


Much appreciated. I will be fine. It will work out the way it should, I just need to be patient.


lrhall41

Submitted by Shazzers on Fri, 11/13/2009 - 11:50

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Shazz-I am a little late here, but I am sorry that things didn't work out. One good thing, I guess- at least you didn't marry him and 10 years down the line find out this wasn't working.

I have been there and done that with a husband--moved to N.C. and what a mistake!! Also have been at the point where we lost everything, even our car. It was a slow climb, but we made it.

If there is anything I can do, or just need to talk, I am here.

Have been gone awhile because my son(that's disabled) had pneumonia and strep and mom was doing bad--but hopefully I am here--jsut let me know--you are in my prayers..karen


lrhall41

Submitted by Bossy4455 on Wed, 11/18/2009 - 08:34

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Originally Posted by Bossy4455
Shazz-I am a little late here, but I am sorry that things didn't work out. One good thing, I guess- at least you didn't marry him and 10 years down the line find out this wasn't working.
I have been there and done that with a husband--moved to N.C. and what a mistake!! Also have been at the point where we lost everything, even our car. It was a slow climb, but we made it.
If there is anything I can do, or just need to talk, I am here.
Have been gone awhile because my son(that's disabled) had pneumonia and strep and mom was doing bad--but hopefully I am here--jsut let me know--you are in my prayers..karen


That is true, I didn't marry him which makes it less messy I suppose. I have lost everything but I'm not ready to roll over and die. Life is, what it is.


lrhall41

Submitted by Shazzers on Wed, 11/18/2009 - 09:13

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My plane leaves tomorrow morning, I am packing up my computer today to send it out. I'm not sure when I will return to the forum, hopefully not too long, my sister does have a computer so I will have access to the Internet at times.

I would also like to thank those of you who offered donations to me, in no way was I asking for donations so it was a pleasant and generous offer. Thank you all, your the best!


lrhall41

Submitted by Shazzers on Mon, 11/23/2009 - 09:02

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Originally Posted by Shazzers
Well, I am moving back to Idaho this Sat. We worked things out and I was offered a job back there. This is the LAST time I am moving, I am so tired of moving around the country. lol


a job you say?that is great,and am happy things worked out for both of you too.


lrhall41

Submitted by paulmergel on Wed, 02/03/2010 - 08:10

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