I guess it's my turn..
Date: Sun, 03/12/2006 - 15:57
I very glad your story had a happy ending,Its very hard to lose
I very glad your story had a happy ending,Its very hard to lose a parent,I know,I have lost both of mine.When my friends talk about their parents,I feel strange,because I dont feel like Im old enough to not have parents anymore,my kids are way to young to not have any grandparents,but life must go on,and Im sure your dad would be very proud of you,and happy that your life is fun again.
I am in a very similar situation and I do know how you felt. It
I am in a very similar situation and I do know how you felt. It does make me feel better to know that it can be overcome. I can't wait to be where you are now!
I am glad that things are getting back on track for you. I know
I am glad that things are getting back on track for you. I know how you feel. Remember if you ever need to talk there is a great bunch of people that will listen. I think we have all been in similiar situations.
Good evening, I quess it would help if I intorduced myself, I b
Good evening,
I quess it would help if I intorduced myself, I became a member about 4 days ago and my name is Susanne.
I have been blessed that I haven't lost anyone in my family, however I am divorced,single pareent. I do live with someone however I do not know if it will last.
I was doing fine up until about 5 months ago with my first paydayloan, it was when I needed to pay some bills after I went on vacation after the 1st time it seemed ok I was able to pay the 1st in full but had to renew to pay for bills again. 1 lead to 2, 2 to 3 etc.. I now have about 6 loans out, Ive borrowed from my parents and siblings which, when tax time came I paid them and 2 of the loans however, I am now so deep in these loans I cannot seem to get out. I haven't told the person I live with due to he is also divorced with his childs support and house. (so I will not ask hime to help) I am now worried about paying the utilities because these damn loans have caused me to be over drawn and I do not get paid again until 3-24. I do not recieve enough child support from my ex. (Child Support Recovery hasn'e really help they take 20% of my check every week which leaves 53.00 for me).
Anyway that is my story , I need some good advise. I do know hat I have to close my account and stop my direct deposit but will I be able to close the accoutn with a overdrawn account do to these loans I'm over 300+
Susanne
That's a girl! You've won! So sorry to hear about losing your fa
That's a girl! You've won! So sorry to hear about losing your father so tragically. Your reactions were normal and understandable.
I lost my mama 16 years ago when she was 46. so young, huh? Next
I lost my mama 16 years ago when she was 46. so young, huh? Next year I will be 46 and the next year---well, I will have out lived my mama. That is really weird and makes me feel sad and guilty. Every year on my birthday, I cry. Because I think of the woman who gave birth to me, is no longer here. I no longer get to hear 'happy birthday' from her. I miss her terribly. She died from stomach cancer. had a thing about going to the doctor, she was an LPN nurse so she had to have recognized the signs. If she had of went, it could have and probably would have saved her life. :cry: But I think it may have had something to do with us always being poor and her not wanting to spend the money on herself rather than it going for the family so she always put herself last. Of course one time, I remember I was in second grade and went around three weeks with a broken arm. My mom tied it up in a cloth diaper for a sling. hard times.
Finsfan, It's great to see that you have a happy ending to yo
Finsfan,
It's great to see that you have a happy ending to your story. Keep in touch on the forum and continue helping people here, we appreciate it!
~Mary
Susanne,I would definitely look in to the debt consolidation
Susanne,
I would definitely look in to the debt consolidation program. If you sign up for it at this website, a counselor will give you a call and help you out with the mess you are in. I'm sure that somebody here will send you a PM with more information on which debt consolidation companies can help you with payday loans, some of them don't. Stand by and somebody will see these posts and get a hold of you. :)
~Mary
Shirley, I am so sorry that you lost your Mom when you were s
Shirley,
I am so sorry that you lost your Mom when you were so young. Telling about her explains why you are so sweet, she taughts you to put others before yourself. That tells me why you are who you are :) I lost my Dad when I was 14, he died right in my arms, in a car accident. I miss him just like you miss your Mom, so I know how you are feeling. :( *hugs*
~Mary
Fin, You are becoming a very active member of the forum. It'
Fin,
You are becoming a very active member of the forum. It's so great to see. I can relate to the stress and misery this causes us, especially when we don't share the details with our spouses. If you were like me, I was afraid of the consequences. I finally broke down and told him awhile ago. He was very loving and supporting of me. It took awhile to find a real solution to the payday loans. I am so grateful I found this forum. I have done a lot of research on this and my husband has crabbed about it a little bit. When something positive happens, he is very excited for me though. Our relationship has only gotten stronger and I'm not afraid to share my story with others now. I am still fighting with a couple of lenders but they are accepting payments through T &C. Isn't it nice to know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel?
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Michelle, I'm sorry for the loss of your father. I can't even im
Michelle, I'm sorry for the loss of your father. I can't even imagine how hard that was for you.
I'm glad that you are finding your way out of the PDL hell that you were in. Thank goodness it does get better.
Thanks Dana. But adversity does make you stronger, doesn't it? E
Thanks Dana. But adversity does make you stronger, doesn't it? Every day is a better day, and the light at the end of the payday loan is getting brighter!
I am so glad to hear that life is going more smoothly now. I am
I am so glad to hear that life is going more smoothly now. I am sorry that you lost your precious father. I have not lost either of my parents, but when they divorced it was very similar to experiencing a death in the family, so I can kind of relate.
It sounds as though you were in a deep depression after this (obviously). Depression can cause you to make unwise decisions among other things. You however are lucky and are a survivor and there is an end in sight for your financial worries. Doesn't it feel good to not have to worry so much anymore?
It feels great not to have to worry..Things are going really wel
It feels great not to have to worry..Things are going really well now..Thanks for the support and kind words. It really means a lot.