Share your stories about your Valentine!!

I have been married to my valentine for 13 years on April 10, 2006. We have a bond that is unbreakable, and believe me people have tried more than once. We met on Valentines Day 2002 and when we first saw each other we knew this was it, the search was over. Both of our families didn't give us 6 mos after we got married and here we are almost 13 years and 4 kids later. We see each other in passing each day. He works all day then attends college at night working on his bacholers degree in Business Management. One thing I always remind myself when were apart is that he is doing all this for us and I am very proud of him and it will be all worth it when he is finished.

Happy Valentines to all the forum members. :D

Hey I keep trying to post mine and it tells me this....whats up? shirley


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Lovely stories from both of you!! Neither I am married at present nor do I have a valentine this year. It's just because I am taking my time to understand the person with whom I want to spend my life. I don't want to go through the phases of divorce later. So, I prefer to get matured first and get a sensible lady matured enough. Hopefully, patience will get rewarded!

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Vikas

I have been married for ten years. My husband just started a new job working the graveyard shift...so he got home, gave me some chocolates and had to go to bed because he works tonight. We met at work in 1993, I started working for his Dad. We have 3 kids, all boys.

Vikas, I just emailed you. :D shirley

Me and my valentine met online two years ago, we met in person exactly two years ago today on Valentine's Day. We went out to shoot pool and have dinner. I remember how quickly he caught on to how embarassed I was to eat in front of him! I would pack my face while his back was turned to me taking his shot, then he caught me offguard with the disposable camera I brought along. The picture of me to the left of each of my posts is a relic of that night! It was magic, except for the picture he took of me with my cheeks bulging full of food! After we finished with pool and dinner he gave me a gift...a cactus. I had never recieved a cactus as a gift and found it a little odd, but I wanted to show appreciation so I said "A cactus! It's beautiful!" then he laughed and gave me the REAL gift...a cute little teddy bear with a costume jewelry heart on it.
He's from Denmark, at the time he was here on a temporary work visa which was to expire five months later. We didn't want to lose each other, so on May 25, 2004 we went to Providence, RI and did the unthinkable. We got out marriage license, walked down the street to the courthouse and were married! It has been a real treat ever since. He inspired me to push myself further. Before him, I was attending a Community College studying liberal arts and working sporadically through a temp agency, a pretty low point in my life. With his encouraging, I gave up on studying liberal arts and started business school. I have my ABA now and am five months away from my BBA.
Last Valentine's Day, which I have always considered to be one of our anniversaries, we went flying together in a fixed-wing airplane (he's a career heli pilot) and then went out for Chinese dinner. After dinner he surprised me with a new teddy bear to keep the first one company!
We spent our first wedding anniversary having dinner at his favourite restaurant Outback, then we went to see Star Wars 3, the weather was so bad the theatre went blackout just as it was getting freaky! (Obi-Wan and Anakin fighting with lightsabers above all that lava) I felt like such a 'tard because the movie was my treat and it bellyflopped!
Today, we spent Valentine's Day taking a firearm safety class and then going practice shooting with the instructor. It wasn't as scary as I thought, the first moment I picked up a gun gave me the creeps, but that passed. It was pretty fun though and the people were very nice. Living in New England all my life gave me a really one-sided look at guns and the NRA. If you respect firearms nobody will get hurt, that's their philosophy, and they're not a bunch of anti-establishment rednecks. They're nice people and they're pretty smart. We had fun today and learned a lot! I can't wait until May 25! And next V-day!

David,

I think that is a great attitude. I'm sure you will find someone special. I married young at 23 and was divorced 5 years later. We remain good friends today so I'm grateful for that. I didn't date for over a year just so I could keep the focus on me and not hurt anyone else in the process. I got married a second time on May 5th of last year after being engaged for two years. The funny thing was we had been friends for several years before that. My family adores my husband and he is a good man. I couldn't ask for anyone better. I hope you all have a wonderful Valentine's Day !

Hi Shirley,

Please check your PM. I have replied back to you. :D

Hope everyone is enjoying with their Valentine. I am still struck in work. :cry:

Regards
Vikas

Happy Valentine's Day, all! My Valentine... I met at my previous work. I was in a septic tank, shoveling the contents into a barrel (long story there...I'll have to elaborate on another thread with that one) and along came this gorgeous guy...and here I am, doing....that. Anyway, he is a geologist and he was doing some field work on top of Mt. San Jacinto (where I worked) and he thought I was the coolest chick in the world, that I could stand to do what I was doing (that was a rare part of my job, usually I was driving a tramcar up the mountain). So I saw him a few more times at work, and I went out of my way to go and find him in the forest on my break, just to chat. He asked me out, we went out, and the rest is history! Weird story, huh? Don't tell anybody! LOL!!

Happy Valentine's day, everybody! Vikas, get off work already! This should be a holiday!! I skipped my meeting tonight :)

~Mary

Well waydizzy...he knew if you could handle that crap, then you could handle his crap. Sorry, had to say it. :D

My valentine is one that I've been married to for 26 years now.As I have posted in an earlier post, we met the day after thanksgiving on a 'blind' date and within a month, we were married! We married three days after Christmas. He didn't live in my town, or even my state for that matter. He was stationed in Beaufort S.C., I was in Georgia, and he came to see me every weekend. He had been married before and had custody of a 2 and 3 yr old. I had a 18 month old. A ready made family is what they called it. SO not only was I marrying someone that I knew for less than a month, but I was also leaving home for the first time. my husband is very dedicated, he retired after 20 years in the USMC, and has shown me that same dedication. We have traveled together and seen places that I would have otherwise never seen. He came in my life when I was at a very low point, I was only 18 when we married but I had already had a hard life. He saved me. He rescued me when I needed rescuing! I raised his children as mine and hes raised mine as his. He adopted my son. While he was married to his first wife, he had a vasectomy and so we would never have our own children together. We thought at first, we would be happy, after all, we had three kids. But after time went on, we longed to have a child together. My husband started going to drs to see about getting his vasectomy reversed. Years went by with no success. These types of drs are expert in the military and few and far between at that time. We had finally accepted it and moved on. one day, my husband had hurt his thumb working on the motor of a bus in Japan. He went to the dr, who just happened to glance through his records and noticed that he was interested in a reversal. It turns out, there as a doctor in that very hospital that could do the reversal and had a reputation for being excellent. My husband got in to see him, had the operation and four months later, I was pregnant with what is now my 20 year old daughter. We have been through thick and thin. If any of you have seen the film forest gump, you'll appreciate that we call ourselves peas and carrots. (remember forest said him and jenny were like peas and carrots?) Thats what we are. He still calls me his 'precious' and tells every one that I'm his bestest friend.
Sometimes I think back and say to myself, that I wished a particular event in my life hadn't of happened, but then I remind myself that if I could go back and change it, then it would change everything and I wouldn't have met my husband. (the butterfly effect) Things happen for a reason, good and bad. I'm thankful that they do! And this is my valentine story. Shirley

Great story Shirley...you win the prize :)

Oh thank you TMD! It took me all afternoon to get the post in, the spam filter kept rejecting me. Vikas had to help me get past it. :D hope everyone had a nice day!!! shirley

Wow Shirley, what a great love story!! Sounds like you have a real sweetie :)

~Mary

Hi Shirley, I was really touched after reading your story. These are some of the cherishing moments of your life and it will remain beautiful like this. I will always pray for your good married life. :D

Ari, I found it to be a very special thing when your husband got a second teddy bear for giving company to the first one. He didn't forget that one was all alone for one complete year. If he can be so sensitive with such small things, he will really take care of you in a very good way. Congratulations on your happy married life!

Mary, it seems that I and you are of the same age group seeing the colorful life of this world. We are enjoying everything coming in our way and try to make it beautiful. Have a very wonderful time with your partner.

John, remember girls will accept any mistakes of the boys but they will never accept their insincerity. After all, it's something with which she will live for the rest of her life. You win everything if you are trustworthy!

Brat, your husband is doing everything for the future of both of you. It is possible that he may not be able to give you time for the most part and that sometimes is the reason of misunderstanding. I am glad that you understand this situation and stand very sensible towards him. This understanding will tie your married life with the strongest knot.

TMD, in spite of being busy in the whole day and in the coming night, your husband knows how to impress his lady on this special day. Your husband is very caring and I can understand that you treat him in the most special way.

Mishele, before you giving your married relationship a name, it's very important that you should see a very good friend in your partner. A great partner has to be your best friend first. I am happy that you have found the best friend in your husband.

And lastly, the site admin, Vikas, what's up with you.. Want to share something with us???

Thank you David, beautiful words from a beautiful person :)

~Mary

You are so right David. :)