I, too, have joined the consolidation club!
Date: Fri, 04/07/2006 - 03:31
(does anyone here watch the tv show 'criminal minds'??? my debt consolidation councilor sounds like that young really smart guy--Dr.Spencer Reed. LOL)
Congratulations Shirley. You will feel a load off of your shoul
Congratulations Shirley. You will feel a load off of your shoulders. You have put forth several hours and alot of time trying to do right. Be proud of yourself.
Shirle, you fought the good fight, and are still fighting.. you
Shirle, you fought the good fight, and are still fighting.. you just changed your tactics, I hope that this step brings u some time to relax adn a lot less stress for you.
Thanks guys!!! technically, I could go on longer with the 'beat
Thanks guys!!! technically, I could go on longer with the 'beat around the bush' validation request tactic because Oxford has not done right, in producing requested validation--and also have not honored my no phone call request. So I could go on longer with them playing the cat and mouse game. But, I'm tired of always worrying about this and whats going to happen next with it. I'm afraid if it stretches out much longer, I may get taken to court and if my husband were to get his wages garnished until these debts were paid off, that would do us in. The debts are mine--I went on a witch hunt and got my own validation from Dell because the accounts still belong to them--and I haven't been able to get Oxford to validate or answer any of my questions. There is one account that is a little off, Dell says its $500 and oxford says its $700 so I am going to fight them on that ASAP.
I just felt it was time to end this. As i said, the debts are mine--that was never a question and I am going to do the right thing in trying to take care of them. I say trying because I don't know yet if they are going to accept the proposal. But for the best interest of my family, i decided it wasn't worth getting sued over. It would kill us and take us back down lower than what we've ever been--(thats pretty low!) and that would be a shame after I've started making some progress in the 'clean up department' on paying things off and getting things cleaned up on our credit report. I could go longer with this, no doubt (and its still not over) but I'm tired of it, and its just not worth the chance of getting sued. (because between Dell and wells fargo, its several thousands of dollars). thanks for your support guys! I will keep you posted on this, as I find things out. hugs, shirley