Parents Need Help
Date: Fri, 02/02/2007 - 09:45
This is really very sad. I am so sorry to hear this. On the othe
This is really very sad. I am so sorry to hear this. On the other side, mortgage payments are very important. Ask your parents to call the lenders immediately and explain the situation. They will possibly do some adjustments for them. If they ask for proof, show them copies of your communication with BOFA.
Keep checking with BOFA regarding the suspicious debit. They should be able to track it. It will be good to file a police complaint and put a fraud alert with the bureaus. Your parent's bank info does not seem to be safe anymore. Check their credit copies for any suspicious accounts. If you find something suspicious, they will investigate for the person stealing your parent's identity.
Excellent advice, Johnson. With most major banks like BofA, they
Excellent advice, Johnson. With most major banks like BofA, they should have a fraud department that your parents are dealing with and they will provide written communication to any creditors that your parents would like them to. It might convince a lender to waive a late fee or two, so I would suggest they do this.
Do NOT under any circumstances take out a PDL!! Speaking from personal experience, they look very tempting, but they will gradually suck you in, so you keep paying one off and don't get close to paying it off. And then, you have to take out a second one, and then a third one and well, you see where I am going. BAD IDEA!!! Again, BAD IDEA!!!!!
Please don't let your parents take out a PDL. This will only ma
Please don't let your parents take out a PDL. This will only make a bad situation worse. If it will only take the bank 7-10 days to investigate, see if your parents can talk to their creditors about an extension of time to pay the bill this one time. If they haven't been habitually late paying their bills, the creditors will probably be pretty easy to work with.
I echo the same sentiments as above. If your parents take out a
I echo the same sentiments as above. If your parents take out a PDL they are setting themselves up for future problems and could possibly even lead to more problems with unauthorized debits. Tell your parents to call BOA at least every other day until it is resolved. Tell them to talk to their creditors. Can they get any type of short term loan from friends or family?