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Date: Sun, 05/13/2007 - 11:06

Submitted by Moondanzer
on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 11:06

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Who among all of us is willing to admit that they are a control freak?

Okay I'll go first. Yes I most definitely am...I am sure this is a shock to most of you.

And, right now the very fact that I cannot get my speed back on my puter is driving me nutz!!

So there you have it in a nutshell...yes..I am a control freak. I don't use my cruise control on my car!

So that's my confession for the day! Now who else?


I am not a control freak by any means, I don't think...my husband may disagree but he thinks the worst of me most of the time.....um what's my confession....I am really, really shy and have a hard time meeting new people. I wish I had some real life friends to hang out with but every one I get lies or screws me over. I also spend a lot of time feeling sorry for myself.......
was that the kind of confession we were talking here??


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Submitted by Sassnlucy on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 11:11

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Well I would say that you are much braver than you give yourself credit for. And, I spent about 20 something years feeling sorry for myself....so I truly do know that pain. But, something has happened at 50...all of a sudden I am experiencing a freedom that is just incredible. I stopped caring what others think about me....I know who I am, and, I know God knows who I am. And, that's all that really matters. If I remember correctly Sass you are in your 30's correct? Well, it's a common known fact that most women experience their first real bout with depression around this time in their lives. So you are by no means alone. I myself had a complete and total nervous breakdown in my mid 30's. Things do begin to change around a little as you get older. My 40's were a little better...and, so far I am flying at 50! Just remember .....don't let fear of the unknown keep you trapped somewhere that may not be a good place for you in your life. And, also.....it's always the very darkest....just before the light begins to shine.


lrhall41

Submitted by Moondanzer on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 11:23

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My confession: I am a spoiled rotten brat...who always got what she wanted until I married a dumb@$$ that my parents hate and got knocked up and my parents cut me off and now I dont know how to do much of anything for myself and I am about to be a mother with nothing....Guess I should have thought that one out. But dont get me wrong...I would not give my son up for the world. I am just gonna have to learn the hard way


lrhall41

Submitted by Leah on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 11:32

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Leah...my first 2 children are products of a pedaphile who molested me at 13. I was forced to marry him as way back then their weren't very many options and not many cared. And, my parents refused to help me. But, you know what I have come to understand. It is God who determines life. And, even though we may not understand his plan....for whatever reason he chose the man you are with now to be the one to concieve with. It took me a long time to come to that understanding. I mean how could the way I concieved my children possibly fall into any kind of plan. But, you know what....they are really exceptional kids who have excelled farther than most parents could ever expect. So even though a terrible thing happened to me....apparently....God knew where the plan was going. So keep the faith!


lrhall41

Submitted by Moondanzer on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 12:09

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I think I am a little bit of a control freak. I like things to be done a certain way and it drives me nuts when it isn't. I hate it when people half-a$$ things. I love my husband and kids to death, but they are the worse about it. My husband starts stuff and then will go start something else and so on and so on and nothing ever gets finished. My kids do "hurry up" jobs and that drives me nuts.

I have also been through things that no child should have to go through and have been through things with my first marriage that no one should have to go through. Really broke my self confidence and self estime (sp). My ex use to tell me he was ashamed to be seen out in public with me, I was fat, (weighed less than I do now), I didn't do this right or that right, would not take NO for an answer and hardly ever have anything to do with his kids....and still don't.

But met my current husband and he is a total opposite of my first, so came out for the better.


lrhall41

Submitted by 2nband on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 14:21

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I use to say never again after my first marriage broke up, but sometimes things happen and there you are. I will say I was a lot more cautious and took a lot more time to get to know him before we got married. Also had to be sure he was going to be ready for a ready made family. My son was 9 and my daughter was 6 when we got married, but we were together 2 years, shy one month, before we got married. Anniversary is Tuesday, but he has to work and I have to do running with the kids, so not much time to celebrate, but that is ok. Sometimes things have to take priority and paying the bills is priority right now.


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Submitted by 2nband on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 14:30

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I tell you he put on one great concert!!! I have not seen his movie Flicka, but did see and have Friday Night Lights and he was good in the movie. A totally different Tim than what one is use to seeing. You know, he could just put on his tight jeans, white t-shirt and that black hat and stand in the middle of my livingroom and I would be happy. My husband might get tired of it, but I sure wouldn't! :twisted:


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Submitted by 2nband on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 14:47

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Me??? Naughty??? :shock: No.....I just want to look at him!!

My husband saw what I wrote and just laughed at me and said only if Faith could be there dressed in the satin sheets like in her Breath video. Told him sure, no problem, but she had to stand in the dining room. LOL :lol:


lrhall41

Submitted by 2nband on Sun, 05/13/2007 - 16:31

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Cajun if I can sit here with my hubby several miles away from home...and, look at 2nbands avatar, and, now have Tweety bring up Richard Gere...*Yum*....I know you can take it too. I am out of here for a while everyone.....actually going outside for some fresh air...I'll be back later....*Hugs* to all!


lrhall41

Submitted by Moondanzer on Mon, 05/14/2007 - 09:58

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I used to think that my husband respected our vows and never in a million years thought that he would step outside of our marriage. I trusted him 100% till last August when he decided to start messing around with some beeyotch from his work that he had had a one night stand with back in the 80s.


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Submitted by Sassnlucy on Mon, 05/14/2007 - 10:52

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Don't even get me started on men breaking vows!!! My ex was notorious for that and found out he was doing it even when we were engaged! But there are some out there that do, although they are few and far between. I think after what I went through with my ex, I don't know that I will ever trust a man on that aspect 100%. I know that is bad to say, even about my husband now, but I am leary and I probably will always be.


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Submitted by 2nband on Mon, 05/14/2007 - 11:53

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That was a very strange marriage! I am sorry, but I cannot stand to watch him and the last video I saw that he did was freaky! I am sorry, but if he was the last man on earth and I was the last woman, I think the human race would die out because, well I just can't think of it. Too gross and I don't care how much money he has either! :?


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Submitted by 2nband on Tue, 05/15/2007 - 19:04

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