Calif & Depressed
Date: Fri, 10/30/2009 - 15:40
ok i am really scared, I need to know if anyone has dealed with Citibank and closing a account to stop ACH withdraws. I am going to going and see the one lady there I know, but I am truely affraid she wont understand my issue, I am taking in my letters of revoke and also the information I printed from the Calif Corps website , I really want to make sure they wont prosecute me. I have proof that I have made payments to these people and also information that they are not legal and that as far as I know in Calif. I have the right to revoke ACH withdraw. I just need some support, my stomach is sick all the time. I have been with them since 1999 and dont want to leave the bank I just want to shut down an account.... UGH !!!!! any information will help.
Just hang in there and keep your chin up, you did nothing wrong,
Just hang in there and keep your chin up, you did nothing wrong, it was the illegal lenders who broke the law!
Who is the lender? If they are illegal, you have a lot of rights
Who is the lender? If they are illegal, you have a lot of rights in Calif that you might not know about. California has cracked down on many online lenders in the last few years and have even banned some outright from the state, so I think it's not going to be as bad as you fear. But you do need to keep your bank in the loop--and I bet that they will probably just close your account and give you a new one, which I think would be the best solution for you.
[QUOTE=;][/QUOTE] Hey Guys,I am worried, I think I have an Anxie
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Hey Guys,I am worried, I think I have an Anxiety problem which is seriously ruin my life can somebody PLEASE PLEASE help me. Firstly, I ALWAYS think that I am dying of some type of cancer so far (bearing in mind I am only 20) I have been to the doctors various times absolutely adamant that I am dying of some kind of cancer or other disease (each one was a different type so obviously I dont have each illness)I know logically that is it probably nothing but I cannot shake the thought for weeks or even months. I have had this problem for years probably knocking on for 5 or 6 years and I hate it (again remember I am only 20 so this has been a serious problem for a long time). I have as far as I can remember had an unsteady hand (hand tremor) which I always worried about, Muscle Spasms too, Tension headaches etc etc essentially I have always had anxiety symtoms but have only recently founf out what the symtoms of anxiety are so never understood them if this makes sense. However I have read a lot of posts on here and a lot of people say they will search and search for a non existance illness going from one doctor to the next searching for answers but I am completely different I have to work myslef up to go the doctors and when I go I am that worried that it is something bad that I feel totally relieved when the doctor says it is nothing that his word alone is enough...however I know that this feeling wont last long.The thing that worries me is that I think I might be developing a drink problem because of this which absolutely kills me inside. Basically when I am around new people I go mute literally unable to speak, even if I want to speak I cannot and its not even like I am not understanding the conversation I just go mute and as a result I drink and drink to lower my guard and to stop this from happening and I also drink to stop my thoughts of my "illness" if only for a few hours and as a result I am drinking a lot to reach a "better place" and this seriously scares me I have even drank alone to stop my thoughts.Essentially what I want to know isIs Alcoholism associated with anxiety ??Are my symtoms associated with anxiety or is it somethng else ??What can I do to stop my constant thoughts of illness ?? I can convince myslef that I dont have one illness and then I will consume my thoughts with another illness, for example in the last two weeks I have been adamant that I have 3 serious illnesses because each ilness I read about on the internet, the symtoms relate to me (even though they didnt before I read them if you understand)Finally what kind of anxiety does it sound like I have ?What products could help ?I appreciate that this is a long post but I am new to this and am searching for answers before it ruins my life any further.Thanks for your time and God bless you all.
