Please Answer, I need advice quick with pdl

Hello Everyone, I am in need of help deperatly. I have 3 online payday loans. One with mypaydaynow.com, one with ameriloan.com, and one with kingston financial. I also have one with the first bank of delaware, and 2 in stone ones. I know this is bad, but I was in desperate measures and waiting on money to be coming in, which still hasn't shown up. My bank got severly overdrafted, and I had the protection on it. Recently, my bank has denied all overdraft protection and some of the last payments I had with these pdl's were denied. I am getting phone calls and emails from mypaydayloan.com at the moment, but none of the others. I live in Missouri and have noticed that some of these places are illegal to be doing buisness. I've read some of the forums here and have sent an email to the 3 online ones that I believe to be illegal, with no response back. This was about a week ago. What should I do about mypaydayloan.com emailing me and calling me. Should I email them back with the same notice I did before stating that I want their operators license number for the state of Missouri to prove they are legal in my state and if they are make payment arrangments with them through the mail? The original loan I had with them was for 300 and the fee was 75 every other week to roll it over or the option to pay in full. I've had this for over 2 months now and have paid the 300 back in the fees alone. I'm at a lost at what I should do, so anyone please give me some advice here. I am needing it badly so I can get my life back on track.