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Where can I turn for true, legitimate debt solutions?

Date: Mon, 12/31/2007 - 12:36

Submitted by anonymous
on Mon, 12/31/2007 - 12:36

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Hello, I am new to this forum, and in desperate need of some advice. Currently, my husband and I have over $50,000 in unsecured debt. Much of this is our own doing from when we were first married, and enjoying two incomes. Fast forward to two children and less income and thus, the landslide started. We do not make excuses for handling our finances wrong. (How we wish we could go back and do it the right way.) However, while were working to pay off things, a burden was added when my husband lost his job, and went from a six-figure income to $40,000/year. I started working, but with child care, etc. it barely helped in meeting our financial obligations. We have pared back expenses truly as much as we possibly can. My husband works overtime whenever possible, as do I. We are struggling with the moral issue of turning to a debt settlement solution, but honestly, do not know where to turn at this point. Any input is appreciated.


It looks as though you are a registered user and you should have been offered the choice of having a free debt consultation. In my opinion I would talk someone from here either wait for them to call you which should be within a couple of days, click on the right side of your screen to speak to someone now or call the 1-800-601-1579.

Either way you chose someone with more knowledge will be able to assist you and welcome to the board :lol: . We are all here to help each other out. Post other questions anytime someone is always here. :)

ladybug


lrhall41

Submitted by ladybug on Mon, 12/31/2007 - 14:47

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Thanks for the response. I will check out the free consultation.


lrhall41

Submitted by on Mon, 12/31/2007 - 20:42

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The free consultation should give you and your husband
some direction and help. One important thing is to not let the stress tear you guys apart. Work on things together and things will get better.


lrhall41

Submitted by sungoddess804 on Tue, 01/01/2008 - 17:02

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I am so glad to have found this forum. This is a scary journey, and one I wish had never started. Yes, talk about stress--many days I feel consumed with all of this! Thanks to all for the advice and encouragement. Keep it coming!


lrhall41

Submitted by on Tue, 01/01/2008 - 19:38

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Are you current on your payments? Also, the state you live in can make some debt options more viable for you. The most important thing is your house and car. I've seen many people skip a house payment to make a credit card payment. Never pay on unsecured debt before your secured debt. You'll never lose your house if you don't pay your credit card bills.


lrhall41

Submitted by rstimson on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 14:50

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Recently I signed up with CDS and now my file is at the Consumer Law Center. After reading these forums, I want out! They are terrible at customer service. They have only deducted one payment and I want to know how to get a refund? and kill this debt for good.

THANKS!


lrhall41

Submitted by on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 16:07

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There are 100 legitimate companies for every 1 bad egg. It's kind of like car repair places. Research, research, research. You're developing a relationship with a company that will last for years. We get a lot of clients coming in from other less-reputable or ineffective debt settlement companies.
"They are terrible at customer service." <- That is a really bad sign.
Your best bet would probably be to come to this forum and ask "Hey, whats up with ABC company? Any good?"

*edit* And I would be shocked to hear of a company suing their own client, especially a new client. :wink:


lrhall41

Submitted by rstimson on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 16:58

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The law firms meaning CLC or do you mean the Collector Law Firms? CLC should accept your cancelation no problem. The refund may be trickier. Many companies keep a portion of your payments for filing, processing, and whatever work they've done already. Since they've only gotten one payment, you may not get it all back. Keep calling them and it will get resolved. =) You can always file a BBB complaint if you are not satisfied in the end.

If you want to go back to paying collectors (ick!), it shouldn't be too hard to figure out who has your accounts, and unless you have sent Cease and Desists with CLC's phone number on them, I'm sure they will be calling like crazy soon.


lrhall41

Submitted by rstimson on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 17:11

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I mean the law firms who were going to help settle the debt. I actually sent a cease and desists letter. It did stop. The debt collectors will be calling me again? I dont want to pay them back, I want to settle and just get a reputable place. Once they called my families home, it was getting too nerve wrecking.


lrhall41

Submitted by shojeanice on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 17:22

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I should also mention that it takes time to do a debt settlement program. The first few months are the roughest. I don't know how CLC works, but in our company, everything kind of smoothes out after a month or two. Once you start building up settlement funds, the negotiations begin. Most of the debt settlement process is a stall tactic to give you time to build up some money.
If you want to do it yourself, there is a great resource; the "Do it yourself" link above.


lrhall41

Submitted by rstimson on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 17:34

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As far as credit card debt goes, everybody settles.
Cease and Desist letters should prevent them from calling you. They can only call friends/family to locate you one time. If anyone ever calls you at work, make sure to tell them you can't receive calls of this nature at work. They can't call back. Its the law.


lrhall41

Submitted by rstimson on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 17:49

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