Settle my own debts.
Date: Sat, 04/03/2010 - 18:14
I thinking about trying to settle my own debts. Because the cards are in my name will I have to include my wife's income when I'm negotiate. Also we split the payment of the house. Is this going to hurt me?
John Black
When I did it, all of the cards were in my name. My wife was not
When I did it, all of the cards were in my name. My wife was not a co-applicant.
I had no trouble in settling. they never tried to contact her.
In fact they never asked about her.
You can always call the cc's and do a reverse probe.
Good luck.
You can do it with the help of all of the great infomation in this forum.
Regards,
King Jabba Labba
King, Did you have to come up with large amounts of money to ge
King,
Did you have to come up with large amounts of money to get your payments reduced. Also what is a reverse probe?
John
Quote:Originally Posted by John BlackHi, I thinking about tryi
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Originally Posted by John Black Hi, I thinking about trying to settle my own debts. Because the cards are in my name will I have to include my wife's income when I'm negotiate. Also we split the payment of the house. Is this going to hurt me? John Black |
leave all income out of the conversation if you can. the more you tell them you have coming in, the less they will be willing to settle i would imagine. i've just started my journey and i'm stickin with the "i'm not able to make my payments at this time" story.
and unless you stop paying your mortgage it shouldn't come in to play...unless you got an ARM and they pull your credit again for the new rate after you go delinquent.
I'm not delinquent yet but by next month I will be. Should I sta
I'm not delinquent yet but by next month I will be. Should I start negotiating now or wait not make payments and then try to negotiate?
Quote:Originally Posted by John BlackKing, Did you have to com
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Originally Posted by John Black King, Did you have to come up with large amounts of money to get your payments reduced. Also what is a reverse probe? John |
I had changed my contact number to only my cell phone.
Some of the cc companies have call centers all over the US and I had the numbers. Chase for instance has at least 4 that I could identify. Create a spread sheet and keep notes.
So I would call them up saying that I'd seen that they called and I was getting back with them. They'd say sure sure and I almost always got a scrap of info. The best is when they say call back in "x" days and we can offer you "%" to settle.
That's a reverse probe.
Quote:Originally Posted by John BlackI'm not delinquent yet but
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Originally Posted by John Black I'm not delinquent yet but by next month I will be. Should I start negotiating now or wait not make payments and then try to negotiate? |
yeah don't even think about a settlement until at least 60 days (and that is highly doubtful, but not completely out of the question). from what i've see most won't even talk settlement until 120+ days.
wonder around the site and read up. i've learned a lot from other peoples experiences!
heck we are almost in the same boat! i am starting my delinquency with all my CC this month.
Blackbeast, Did you have to come up with large amounts of money
Blackbeast,
Did you have to come up with large amounts of money to get your payments reduced? Have they asked for any bank statements or other information from you to come up with a payment plan yet?
King did settlements by the sounds of things...settlements are a
King did settlements by the sounds of things...settlements are a one time (sometimes broken into 3 payments)payment to settle the balance. You sound like you want lower payments...these are not the same and can be treated very differently.
Oh, I didn't know. Yes I do want lower payments. I almost to the
Oh, I didn't know. Yes I do want lower payments. I almost to the point where I can't make the monthly payments. Is this something I can negotiate with the credit card companies?
If you can barely make the payments, you might want to be talkin
If you can barely make the payments, you might want to be talking to a non profit consumer credit counseling or a bankruptcy attorney. Each creditor has their own guidelines and you would probably want to talk to each one individually.
totally agree with soap on this one. there is a difference in lo
totally agree with soap on this one. there is a difference in lowering your monthly payments (means you will still pay back 100% of debt) versus settlement (means paying back anywhere from 20-75% of debt....but with a lot more involvement).
i am choosing the latter. i know the consequences of settlement but i feel that im young enough to get past this and have a stress free life!
but to answer your question, yes i will have a large amount of money stored up to pay a 1 time sum to each CC company once we reach a settlement %.
if they ask for bank statements i'll tell them i don't have a checking account and use cash for everything :)
They shouldn't ask for bank information. Don't volunteer info, a
They shouldn't ask for bank information. Don't volunteer info, and if you have an account with the bank you owe, I would remove the money and put into a neutral bank to do the payments out of.
I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I
I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I just missed my first payment on... can chase reach into my account without permission and take the money?
Quote:Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBeI have a checking acc
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Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBe I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I just missed my first payment on... can chase reach into my account without permission and take the money? |
I would close the account and switch banks if your looking to settle, they could easily see how much money you have in there, frequency of deposits, and gauge income.
Quote:Originally Posted by mybox22004I would close the account a
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Originally Posted by mybox22004 I would close the account and switch banks if your looking to settle, they could easily see how much money you have in there, frequency of deposits, and gauge income. |
i agree, move the cash elsewhere asap, or this can hurt your objetives
Settle my own debt
It sounds so easy to do. I think I'm going to give it a try, but it will be hard because I work 2 jobs and trying to talk to creditors in private will be a challenge. Thank you all for your suggestions and great information.
Quote:Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBeI have a checking acc
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Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBe I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I just missed my first payment on... can chase reach into my account without permission and take the money? |
Yes they can and will reach into your account. Called "right of offset".