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Settle my own debts.

Date: Sat, 04/03/2010 - 18:14

Submitted by John Black
on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 18:14

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Hi,

I thinking about trying to settle my own debts. Because the cards are in my name will I have to include my wife's income when I'm negotiate. Also we split the payment of the house. Is this going to hurt me?

John Black


When I did it, all of the cards were in my name. My wife was not a co-applicant.

I had no trouble in settling. they never tried to contact her.
In fact they never asked about her.

You can always call the cc's and do a reverse probe.

Good luck.
You can do it with the help of all of the great infomation in this forum.

Regards,
King Jabba Labba


lrhall41

Submitted by King Jabba Labba on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 20:18

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Quote:

Originally Posted by John Black
Hi,

I thinking about trying to settle my own debts. Because the cards are in my name will I have to include my wife's income when I'm negotiate. Also we split the payment of the house. Is this going to hurt me?

John Black


leave all income out of the conversation if you can. the more you tell them you have coming in, the less they will be willing to settle i would imagine. i've just started my journey and i'm stickin with the "i'm not able to make my payments at this time" story.

and unless you stop paying your mortgage it shouldn't come in to play...unless you got an ARM and they pull your credit again for the new rate after you go delinquent.


lrhall41

Submitted by blackbeasst on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 11:38

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Originally Posted by John Black
King,

Did you have to come up with large amounts of money to get your payments reduced. Also what is a reverse probe?

John


I had changed my contact number to only my cell phone.

Some of the cc companies have call centers all over the US and I had the numbers. Chase for instance has at least 4 that I could identify. Create a spread sheet and keep notes.

So I would call them up saying that I'd seen that they called and I was getting back with them. They'd say sure sure and I almost always got a scrap of info. The best is when they say call back in "x" days and we can offer you "%" to settle.

That's a reverse probe.


lrhall41

Submitted by King Jabba Labba on Mon, 04/05/2010 - 22:52

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Originally Posted by John Black
I'm not delinquent yet but by next month I will be. Should I start negotiating now or wait not make payments and then try to negotiate?


yeah don't even think about a settlement until at least 60 days (and that is highly doubtful, but not completely out of the question). from what i've see most won't even talk settlement until 120+ days.

wonder around the site and read up. i've learned a lot from other peoples experiences!

heck we are almost in the same boat! i am starting my delinquency with all my CC this month.


lrhall41

Submitted by blackbeasst on Tue, 04/06/2010 - 06:14

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totally agree with soap on this one. there is a difference in lowering your monthly payments (means you will still pay back 100% of debt) versus settlement (means paying back anywhere from 20-75% of debt....but with a lot more involvement).

i am choosing the latter. i know the consequences of settlement but i feel that im young enough to get past this and have a stress free life!

but to answer your question, yes i will have a large amount of money stored up to pay a 1 time sum to each CC company once we reach a settlement %.

if they ask for bank statements i'll tell them i don't have a checking account and use cash for everything :)


lrhall41

Submitted by blackbeasst on Tue, 04/06/2010 - 12:21

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Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBe
I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I just missed my first payment on... can chase reach into my account without permission and take the money?

I would close the account and switch banks if your looking to settle, they could easily see how much money you have in there, frequency of deposits, and gauge income.


lrhall41

Submitted by mybox22004 on Tue, 04/06/2010 - 22:59

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Originally Posted by mybox22004
I would close the account and switch banks if your looking to settle, they could easily see how much money you have in there, frequency of deposits, and gauge income.

i agree, move the cash elsewhere asap, or this can hurt your objetives


lrhall41

Submitted by on Wed, 04/07/2010 - 17:01

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It sounds so easy to do. I think I'm going to give it a try, but it will be hard because I work 2 jobs and trying to talk to creditors in private will be a challenge. Thank you all for your suggestions and great information.


lrhall41

Submitted by John Black on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 12:17

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Originally Posted by DebtfreeSoonToBe
I have a checking account with Chase, and a CC with chase that I just missed my first payment on... can chase reach into my account without permission and take the money?


Yes they can and will reach into your account. Called "right of offset".


lrhall41

Submitted by OZZIE69 on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 12:58

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