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I am so so stressed

Date: Tue, 10/17/2006 - 14:25

Submitted by TASHA_MOSELEY
on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 14:25

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Guys im so stressed but a part of me thinks i will be ok...


Steelers1 is right. I know from experience. I know what you're going through right now. That's how I was, actually until yesterday. I have four PDLs out, all of them internet, only one licensed. I received an e-mail from one stating he marked my account paid in full and was willing to send me a $150 refund. The second was a phone call where she agreed to mark my account paid in full. Hang in there. It WILL HAPPEN, and you'll be rid of those PDLs before you know it!


lrhall41

Submitted by dbaker6 on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 14:53

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I promise it will get better. Just tackle each pdl and follow through. I had 3 and they have all been paid in full and I've received 800.00 in refunds. When my paycheck was direct deposited on 10/11/in my new checking account, it was a wonderful feeling to see that a total of 185.00 in rollover fees was not there and will not be there on my next payday. I just found this site on 10/3/06 and all 3 of my pdl's are marked paid in full. I listened to Steelers 1 and everyone else and did not back down when the pdl reps tried to intimidate me. It truly works, and if you run into a problem come here and ask anything you need to know, someone will have an answer or be willing to find the what you need to know. You're right, you're going to be OK!!!!!


lrhall41

Submitted by on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 15:32

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Tasha, You will be ok, the stress level goes down once you face this head on, it is like a feeling of relief that something is going to happen rather than the feeling of avoidance. It is real hard but keep coming back here for support and advice. This site has been very sucessful in improving my feeling of hopelessness that I would be stuck here forever. Now I feel there is an end in sight, it may not very close but it is a lot closer than it was a couple months ago. Hang in there, you can do it.


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Submitted by Pauli'sGirl on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 15:50

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Tasha,You will be ok. I became a member in September and it is amazing what all I've learned in just this short of time. It has truly helped and encouraged me. I had 6 pdl's (5 internet and 1 store front). I was so stressed out that I was having health problems because of it. It has made me feel so much better that I can come here and ask questions and talk about my financial problems with people who know how I feel and that are able too give advice that really works. So far, the store front pdl is letting me pay $20 a week until I get them paid off (I owe them $577.50) and 1 internet pdl has marked my account paid in full! Believe me it will get better and less stressful. We're all here to help.


lrhall41

Submitted by kirasienna13 on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 16:36

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Another thing to keep in mind Tasha, is that you're not alone in this! I know it made me feel lots better just knowing that there were other people out there in the same (or worse) situation as I am!

I'm not out of the woods yet, but I know I'll get there! Hang in there...we'll all get there sooner or later!


lrhall41

Submitted by Pernoleum on Tue, 10/17/2006 - 16:40

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Things will get better. I know you are thinking WHEN? Be patient and things do eventually come to an end. I was in the same shape as fins last year and I am FREE!!!! Good Luck KYSIDE38


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Submitted by KYSIDE38 on Thu, 10/19/2006 - 21:24

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sooo true im so obseeded with checking the caller id when i get home from work.... I even turn the ringer off cause i dont wanr these stupid a** collectors calling and takling to my BF.... One day I came home and there was a grip of 800 numbers on my caller ID and i was writing them all down. My BF thought i was up to something with another guy which is just his guilty mind, but thats another story. Anyways he gets mad cause in writing down all these number and then he says "why do you always turn the ringer off?" "who do you have calling this house bla bla bla.. lol i say no one he, then breaks the caller id, I cry and say "man why did you do that now i cant pay my bills" it was CRAZY.... I had the numbert wriiten down but he flushed them down the toilet I was pissed.... turns out he did not break the caller id the plug just came out.. so i got the numbers and called at work they were all either telemarketers ore people offering me a LOAN... CRAZY... all this cuzz a dran loans(S)....lol


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Submitted by TASHA_MOSELEY on Tue, 10/24/2006 - 09:57

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kscornell, hey congratulations!! That will be here before you know it. Isn't it great to know the end is near! That's the beauty of this website. I can't say for sure, but my guess would be without this, APril 2007 would come and go and you would probably still be in the same, if not worse, situation. Cheers to all the help here!


lrhall41

Submitted by on Tue, 10/24/2006 - 10:35

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kscornell, April will be here and just in time for Easter you will be free. YAH!!!! You deserve it. I kinow you have stressed a lot over this. Take care and we will have to go to chat soon. KYSIDE38


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Submitted by KYSIDE38 on Tue, 10/24/2006 - 15:01

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kscornell,
My independence day will be March 23,2007!!! My first payment also cleared with Marcia Brady :D I will be glad when this is done and over. I'm already getting emails from these pdls, informing me of NSF's, and I just defaulted this past Fri(Oct 20). That's okay, because I'm on the road to recovery :D


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Submitted by brownsugar on Tue, 10/24/2006 - 19:09

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Hey brownsugar your independance day is my husbands Birthday. Congradulations and I know you will be so relieved. KYSIDE38


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Submitted by KYSIDE38 on Tue, 10/24/2006 - 20:23

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