I am so so stressed
Date: Tue, 10/17/2006 - 14:25
Submitted by TASHA_MOSELEY
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Tue, 10/17/2006 - 14:25
Total Replies: 33
Once you start the process of settling with you internet pdls yo
Once you start the process of settling with you internet pdls you
Sorry, I hit submit too soon, You will start feeling less stress
Sorry, I hit submit too soon, You will start feeling less stress. I know it is hard until you start to see some progress happening, but it will happen!
Steelers1 is right. I know from experience. I know what you're
Steelers1 is right. I know from experience. I know what you're going through right now. That's how I was, actually until yesterday. I have four PDLs out, all of them internet, only one licensed. I received an e-mail from one stating he marked my account paid in full and was willing to send me a $150 refund. The second was a phone call where she agreed to mark my account paid in full. Hang in there. It WILL HAPPEN, and you'll be rid of those PDLs before you know it!
I promise it will get better. Just tackle each pdl and follow th
I promise it will get better. Just tackle each pdl and follow through. I had 3 and they have all been paid in full and I've received 800.00 in refunds. When my paycheck was direct deposited on 10/11/in my new checking account, it was a wonderful feeling to see that a total of 185.00 in rollover fees was not there and will not be there on my next payday. I just found this site on 10/3/06 and all 3 of my pdl's are marked paid in full. I listened to Steelers 1 and everyone else and did not back down when the pdl reps tried to intimidate me. It truly works, and if you run into a problem come here and ask anything you need to know, someone will have an answer or be willing to find the what you need to know. You're right, you're going to be OK!!!!!
OK, why am I showing up as a guest on the previous post, I'm reg
OK, why am I showing up as a guest on the previous post, I'm registered.
OK, I know why, I'm brain dead and forgot to sign in
OK, I know why, I'm brain dead and forgot to sign in
Tasha, You will be ok, the stress level goes down once you face
Tasha, You will be ok, the stress level goes down once you face this head on, it is like a feeling of relief that something is going to happen rather than the feeling of avoidance. It is real hard but keep coming back here for support and advice. This site has been very sucessful in improving my feeling of hopelessness that I would be stuck here forever. Now I feel there is an end in sight, it may not very close but it is a lot closer than it was a couple months ago. Hang in there, you can do it.
Tasha,You will be ok. I became a member in September and it is a
Tasha,You will be ok. I became a member in September and it is amazing what all I've learned in just this short of time. It has truly helped and encouraged me. I had 6 pdl's (5 internet and 1 store front). I was so stressed out that I was having health problems because of it. It has made me feel so much better that I can come here and ask questions and talk about my financial problems with people who know how I feel and that are able too give advice that really works. So far, the store front pdl is letting me pay $20 a week until I get them paid off (I owe them $577.50) and 1 internet pdl has marked my account paid in full! Believe me it will get better and less stressful. We're all here to help.
Another thing to keep in mind Tasha, is that you're not alone in
Another thing to keep in mind Tasha, is that you're not alone in this! I know it made me feel lots better just knowing that there were other people out there in the same (or worse) situation as I am!
I'm not out of the woods yet, but I know I'll get there! Hang in there...we'll all get there sooner or later!
Hi Tasha, What you're feeling is NORMAL!! Trust me, it'll wo
Hi Tasha,
What you're feeling is NORMAL!! Trust me, it'll work out...I had 6 pdls in default last year, and now I am a member of the PDL survivor club!! Sooner than you think it'll be ok. Hang in there, we are all here for you.
Finsfan, you need to start a thread titled: PDL SURVIVAL CLUB, a
Finsfan, you need to start a thread titled: PDL SURVIVAL CLUB, and each time a person becomes pdl free they sign on the thread. You need to come up with a good motto/creed.
lol..That's a great idea!! You will be there very very soon your
lol..That's a great idea!! You will be there very very soon yourself, won't you?
I've been there for about a little over a month. WHEW!
I've been there for about a little over a month. WHEW!
isn't it wonderful!! Sometimes though, I'm still afraid when the
isn't it wonderful!! Sometimes though, I'm still afraid when the phone rings, I wonder if that ever really goes away. It's been 7 months for me now.
Yes, I know the feeling. Now when I get those 800/877/866 number
Yes, I know the feeling. Now when I get those 800/877/866 numbers popping up, I'm a little weary of them, it is usually a telemarketer, I got one the other day and it was a computer call from our school district telling me to come to college night.
I know when I am done, those little heartjerks at the 800 & 866
I know when I am done, those little heartjerks at the 800 & 866 numbers will keep me in reality remembering the hard time and stress these pdls have been taking on me. .
Kyside is right. She was there for me and helped me through when
Kyside is right. She was there for me and helped me through when I was in the same situation. Take any advice she gives and you will be ok.
Kyside..You're free too!!! I am sooo glad to hear that, doesn't
Kyside..You're free too!!! I am sooo glad to hear that, doesn't it feel great? All I can say is, when it starts to get better, it gets better fast..And then it's over.
April 20th, 2007...remember the date--cuz it will be my independ
April 20th, 2007...remember the date--cuz it will be my independance day!!!!!! My first payment cleared for Marcia Brady, so I'm on my way!!!!
Tackle each day and minute as they come and don't overwhelm your
Tackle each day and minute as they come and don't overwhelm yourself with stress, they can't kill you and they can't put you in jail
sooo true im so obseeded with checking the caller id when i get
sooo true im so obseeded with checking the caller id when i get home from work.... I even turn the ringer off cause i dont wanr these stupid a** collectors calling and takling to my BF.... One day I came home and there was a grip of 800 numbers on my caller ID and i was writing them all down. My BF thought i was up to something with another guy which is just his guilty mind, but thats another story. Anyways he gets mad cause in writing down all these number and then he says "why do you always turn the ringer off?" "who do you have calling this house bla bla bla.. lol i say no one he, then breaks the caller id, I cry and say "man why did you do that now i cant pay my bills" it was CRAZY.... I had the numbert wriiten down but he flushed them down the toilet I was pissed.... turns out he did not break the caller id the plug just came out.. so i got the numbers and called at work they were all either telemarketers ore people offering me a LOAN... CRAZY... all this cuzz a dran loans(S)....lol
kscornell, hey congratulations!! That will be here before you
kscornell, hey congratulations!! That will be here before you know it. Isn't it great to know the end is near! That's the beauty of this website. I can't say for sure, but my guess would be without this, APril 2007 would come and go and you would probably still be in the same, if not worse, situation. Cheers to all the help here!
KSCornell: April 20, 2007, is right around the corner! It'll
KSCornell:
April 20, 2007, is right around the corner! It'll be here before you know it. Congratulations!
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kscornell, April will be here and just in time for Easter you will be free. YAH!!!! You deserve it. I kinow you have stressed a lot over this. Take care and we will have to go to chat soon. KYSIDE38
Thanks, Guys!!!!!! And we will have the mother of all chat parti
Thanks, Guys!!!!!! And we will have the mother of all chat parties that day!!!! And the guest of honor will be Marcia Brady!!!
kscornell, My independence day will be March 23,2007!!! My firs
kscornell,
My independence day will be March 23,2007!!! My first payment also cleared with Marcia Brady :D I will be glad when this is done and over. I'm already getting emails from these pdls, informing me of NSF's, and I just defaulted this past Fri(Oct 20). That's okay, because I'm on the road to recovery :D
You bet, Brownsugar, And we're going to help each other get th
You bet, Brownsugar,
And we're going to help each other get there!
kscornell, We are going to help each other and if you have any
kscornell,
We are going to help each other and if you have any questions for me, just send me a pm 8)
Brownsugar: Congratulations to you, too. It's not far at all
Brownsugar:
Congratulations to you, too. It's not far at all. I hope the time goes by really fast for both of you!
so stressed
Hey brownsugar your independance day is my husbands Birthday. Congradulations and I know you will be so relieved. KYSIDE38